放幾天假已足夠陷我於不義。
對於在職場上的你虞我詐，
慨看不起而且感到一點也不光明磊落。
與其費煞思量去耍手段出口術，
不如把事辦妥平息更實際。
這種發展勊星經常廢時失事，
阻礙人類發展，浪費地球資源。
晒米飯~
Monday, November 02, 2009
Thursday, October 22, 2009
Monday, October 19, 2009
好想
好想看一場Good Show，學我叫好叫座。
好想出去走一走，看看天空有多大。
好想畫好一幅畫，看看自己技倆。
好想遇上你，煽動我的思緒。
以上想法全因好想
∴好想潮到爆。
But好赲我最想先品嚐一杯提神香滑的Cafe Latte。
好想出去走一走，看看天空有多大。
好想畫好一幅畫，看看自己技倆。
好想遇上你，煽動我的思緒。
以上想法全因好想
∴好想潮到爆。
But好赲我最想先品嚐一杯提神香滑的Cafe Latte。
Saturday, October 17, 2009
Sunday, October 11, 2009
介別
處理不同事情和應付不同對手，也需抱不同態度。
凡事不用太上心，有時一動不如一靜。
静觀其變，欣賞宏觀，不要跟小事過不去。
即使未如理想，也不會有下次。
要事事關心，一事同仁，無線新聞也辦不到。
生活已夠多煩惱，別讓小事煞風景。
成熟不會因年紀而遞增，對方可能是童心未泯已了。
凡事不用太上心，有時一動不如一靜。
静觀其變，欣賞宏觀，不要跟小事過不去。
即使未如理想，也不會有下次。
要事事關心，一事同仁，無線新聞也辦不到。
生活已夠多煩惱，別讓小事煞風景。
成熟不會因年紀而遞增，對方可能是童心未泯已了。
Saturday, October 03, 2009
So Cliche
So many opinions AKA cliche~ No content no objective but shallow mentality. 看得多低智東西，的確會令人言詞空洞，低不可測。
Thanks for all updates!
Thanks for all updates!
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Live it & Learn it
"Fuck me once badly, shame on you.
Fuck me twice badly, shame on me."
Quoted from S&C, Samantha.
Fuck me twice badly, shame on me."
Quoted from S&C, Samantha.
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
來自"爭氣的藝術"
如果你受了委屈，又想將情緒表現出來，你有很多方法。你可以找朋友訴苦，可以找對方理論，可以發脾氣、發屋企人脾氣、篤背脊、登報紙、可以流淚、亂花錢、飲醉酒、染上毒癮、發神經、變得荒淫，你亦可以玩逃避、玩絕交、剪自己頭髮、鎅手鎅腳、移民、找心理醫生，也可以咬耳仔、放毒蛇、畀錢黑社會打他一身、找老千、撬他女朋友....嘩，方法多著呢。
最難做的方法，可能是不作任何回應。
最難做的方法，可能是不作任何回應。
有趣
對一些無病呻吟用不同途徑博取同情或注意的看法，只好說是道行未夠及以下文章。
"他不如做個PowerPoint，在會展租個場地來個正統的Presentation來推廣自己建立人緣，對於這種事，除了視為笑話一則，我想不到還可以用什麼方法看待，世上很多事情，我都會認真對待例如:我的工作、我看哪一個中醫、用哪一支粉底，然而這種活動我實在不能，有心力的話，我會想應該入哪隻股票。"
"他不如做個PowerPoint，在會展租個場地來個正統的Presentation來推廣自己建立人緣，對於這種事，除了視為笑話一則，我想不到還可以用什麼方法看待，世上很多事情，我都會認真對待例如:我的工作、我看哪一個中醫、用哪一支粉底，然而這種活動我實在不能，有心力的話，我會想應該入哪隻股票。"
Sunday, September 13, 2009
No Matter What...
開始咗一連四次自家游泳醫頸患療程，第一次下水嘅時候，一心諗住鬆弛頸肌減少酸痛，中間隻腳抽咗兩次筋，總結游完十個塘，叫做有個交代亦好了許多。第二次開始真正專心游，抽筋減至一次之餘，還游多了幾個塘。第三次游已經無抽筋嘅情況，亦有保持游十多個塘。去到第四次游泳嘅時候，開始思索一些問題，可能只有游水嘅時候無什麼外來雜念，只需保持動作和呼吸的節奏往前游，開始反覆思索一些過往決定和問題的壓根兒，到最後有些問題無論我再努力游多十個塘都會是一樣，不過總有些得著。
Tuesday, September 08, 2009
Sunday, August 09, 2009
How much memory do I need?
How many things can you recall?
It is not a thing that easily get under control.
Having good memory may not be a good thing.
It is not a thing that easily get under control.
Having good memory may not be a good thing.
Thursday, August 06, 2009
Monday, June 15, 2009
Worth to plan
Sometimes we might spend a lot of time planning and trying to make the best decision, but it turned out the decision was already made and all we have to do was following the path to get there.
Monday, May 04, 2009
Saturday, April 04, 2009
Sex & The City
星期五晚上跟友人用了一頓簡單的晚餐後，到HMV逛一逛﹒我選擇了兩張"Symphony Live in Vienna"-Sarah Brightman、張國榮的最紅和減價的Sex & the City Season II﹒其實當中的一張Sarah Brightman和張國榮最紅專輯是送人的﹒當友人看到我手持兩張Sarah Brightman專輯時，問了一句“佢啲歌好好聽ga？我頓時靜了一靜，因為我唔知如何表達....Sarah Brightman是一位被譽為擁有天籟之音的一位英國女高音，街知巷聞的明曲有The Phantom of the Opera和Time to Say Goodbye﹒她最近在港的演唱會一張門票要千多元﹒至於好聽一問，只在於個人喜好，始終不是主流流行音樂，不是人人也感興趣，可能你會一聽就昏昏欲睡﹒可惜我當時無心跟友人交流，只係輕輕帯過，說了一句ok ga，草草了事﹒
跟住見到我再手持Sex & the City時，友人就好大反應地說:『唉教壞人!』﹒我直言道出我家已有Season I, III & V﹒如真有咁大威力教壞我，我都壞了一大半了﹒我問友人有冇真正睇過電視系列或只看過電影？老實說如果冇睇過電視系列，真係會抱有偏見﹒我卻偏偏鍾情這套戲，大學時代其中一套每個星期六晚追看的 HBO TV series﹒要敢愛敢談的確令人羨慕﹒而且戲中妙語連珠，多少漂亮對答和對感情的瀟灑態度﹒
後記
已離開大學很久，再看這套曾經追過的電視劇，也有另一份感覺，整個心態也不同了長大了﹒Grown up!
跟住見到我再手持Sex & the City時，友人就好大反應地說:『唉教壞人!』﹒我直言道出我家已有Season I, III & V﹒如真有咁大威力教壞我，我都壞了一大半了﹒我問友人有冇真正睇過電視系列或只看過電影？老實說如果冇睇過電視系列，真係會抱有偏見﹒我卻偏偏鍾情這套戲，大學時代其中一套每個星期六晚追看的 HBO TV series﹒要敢愛敢談的確令人羨慕﹒而且戲中妙語連珠，多少漂亮對答和對感情的瀟灑態度﹒
後記
已離開大學很久，再看這套曾經追過的電視劇，也有另一份感覺，整個心態也不同了長大了﹒Grown up!
Thursday, April 02, 2009
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蠢人恐怖過奸人 － 卓韻芝
謀殺與誤殺
害怕蠢人，遠遠多於害怕奸人﹒
奸人會害人，蠢人則會連累人，兩者皆無定向，無迹可遁，稍有鬆懈，麻煩上身﹒奸人陰陰濕濕，難以預測防避，蠢人蠢起來冇路捉，情況同樣防不勝防﹒蠢人能在任何時間作出愚笨決定，違反一切常識及邏輯，製造出變化多端的亂子﹒奸人當然比蠢人危險，若被奸人看中，被其一掌重擊，掉落山頭永無翻身；蠢人攻擊力較弱，但由於好心做壞事的次數可以極為頻密，所以俗語有云：「奸人擊死你，蠢人激死你，奸人謀殺死你；奸人讓你動氣得想自殺﹒」
蠢人界軍雞
哈哈，蠢人就不同了﹒為什麼沒有著作教我們如何防避蠢人呢？為什麼市場上沒有《妙法喝止蠢人做蠢事》、《Dumb Prevention for Dummies》之類的書籍呢？我真的想買一本﹒奸人有個好處，他們目標明確，你不在他們對付之列的話，就可以成功避免自己成為奸計中的犠牲品／踏腳石﹒然而，蠢人的蠢，卻是全方位的，跟年資、學歷、年紀無關，可以隨時隨地都蠢，Anytime,anywhere,any situation﹒蠢的程度，蠢的事可以蠢得連編劇都編不出來，這才是防不勝防﹒最恐怖是「熱心的蠢人」，一旦不小心向他們發出指令，一旦他們開始出錯，你就只得眼巴巴看着事情繼續糟下去，再叫「阿邊個呀，呢個電話真係唔洗再打嘞﹒」他們還是很熱心地說：「唔係哩，我打啦，我而家就打﹒」蠢人界軍雞，盲頭打不死，卻打撞死你﹒
蠢人教不精，就算教了，他們還是有本事發明另一種方法來把事情做錯﹒告訴他們某個客人喜歡開門見山，他們便以為可以力罵對方﹒告訴他們這裏是個大家庭，他們會放下工作買咖啡給大家喝﹒告訴他們要盡快回覆，他們在計劃未落實之前就已回覆了﹒還以為自己很精靈，洋洋得意又或者是滿頭大汗地跑回來說自己的工作完成了，結果你得花時間讓他們從頭到尾詳述一次自己做了什麼，你邊聽邊冒汗，唯有說「得嘞，你繼續講啦．．．」
總結
蠢人恐怖過奸人，因為蠢人的數目比起奸人多出太多倍，這是命中率的問題﹒奸人與蠢人，就像空難與塞車，空難防不了，塞車嘛，你每天上班也定必遇上﹒
謀殺與誤殺
害怕蠢人，遠遠多於害怕奸人﹒
奸人會害人，蠢人則會連累人，兩者皆無定向，無迹可遁，稍有鬆懈，麻煩上身﹒奸人陰陰濕濕，難以預測防避，蠢人蠢起來冇路捉，情況同樣防不勝防﹒蠢人能在任何時間作出愚笨決定，違反一切常識及邏輯，製造出變化多端的亂子﹒奸人當然比蠢人危險，若被奸人看中，被其一掌重擊，掉落山頭永無翻身；蠢人攻擊力較弱，但由於好心做壞事的次數可以極為頻密，所以俗語有云：「奸人擊死你，蠢人激死你，奸人謀殺死你；奸人讓你動氣得想自殺﹒」
蠢人界軍雞
哈哈，蠢人就不同了﹒為什麼沒有著作教我們如何防避蠢人呢？為什麼市場上沒有《妙法喝止蠢人做蠢事》、《Dumb Prevention for Dummies》之類的書籍呢？我真的想買一本﹒奸人有個好處，他們目標明確，你不在他們對付之列的話，就可以成功避免自己成為奸計中的犠牲品／踏腳石﹒然而，蠢人的蠢，卻是全方位的，跟年資、學歷、年紀無關，可以隨時隨地都蠢，Anytime,anywhere,any situation﹒蠢的程度，蠢的事可以蠢得連編劇都編不出來，這才是防不勝防﹒最恐怖是「熱心的蠢人」，一旦不小心向他們發出指令，一旦他們開始出錯，你就只得眼巴巴看着事情繼續糟下去，再叫「阿邊個呀，呢個電話真係唔洗再打嘞﹒」他們還是很熱心地說：「唔係哩，我打啦，我而家就打﹒」蠢人界軍雞，盲頭打不死，卻打撞死你﹒
蠢人教不精，就算教了，他們還是有本事發明另一種方法來把事情做錯﹒告訴他們某個客人喜歡開門見山，他們便以為可以力罵對方﹒告訴他們這裏是個大家庭，他們會放下工作買咖啡給大家喝﹒告訴他們要盡快回覆，他們在計劃未落實之前就已回覆了﹒還以為自己很精靈，洋洋得意又或者是滿頭大汗地跑回來說自己的工作完成了，結果你得花時間讓他們從頭到尾詳述一次自己做了什麼，你邊聽邊冒汗，唯有說「得嘞，你繼續講啦．．．」
總結
蠢人恐怖過奸人，因為蠢人的數目比起奸人多出太多倍，這是命中率的問題﹒奸人與蠢人，就像空難與塞車，空難防不了，塞車嘛，你每天上班也定必遇上﹒
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Saturday, March 28, 2009
I wonder if it is stain-free?!
Astronaut tests stink-free underwear
HOUSTON (Reuters) – Teen-age boys, are you tired of embarrassing questions about when you last changed underwear? Japan's space scientists may have just the answer -- a line of odour-free underwear and casual clothing.
Koichi Wakata, the first Japanese astronaut to live on the International Space Station, is testing the clothes, called J-ware and created by textile experts at Japan Women's University in Tokyo.
"He can wear his trunks (underwear) more than a week," said Koji Yanagawa, an official with the Japanese Aerospace Exploration Agency.
Wakata's clothes, developed by researcher Yoshiko Taya, are designed to kill bacteria, absorb water, insulate the body and dry quickly. They also are flame-resistant and anti-static, not to mention comfortable and stylish.
Japanese astronaut Takao Doi gave the clothes a trial run during a shuttle mission last year. Even after a vigorous workout, Doi's clothes stayed dry.
"The other astronauts become very sweaty, but he doesn't have any sweat. He didn't need to hang his clothes to dry," Yanagawa said.
J-ware should reduce the amount of clothing that needs to be sent to the space station, which has no laundry facilities. Toting cargo into orbit is expensive, so having clothes that stay fresh for weeks at a time should result in significant savings.
The Japanese space agency plans to make the clothes available to NASA and its other space station partners once development is complete. A commercial line also is in the offing.
Taya also is working with clothing manufacturers Toray Industries and Goldwin. on clothes that have a microscopically thin chemical layer in the materials.
Wakata, who arrived at the station last week for a three-month stay, said on Sunday that the clothes appear to be working.
"Nobody has complained, so I think it's so far, so good," Wakata said.
(Editing by Jane Sutton and Cynthia Osterman)
HOUSTON (Reuters) – Teen-age boys, are you tired of embarrassing questions about when you last changed underwear? Japan's space scientists may have just the answer -- a line of odour-free underwear and casual clothing.
Koichi Wakata, the first Japanese astronaut to live on the International Space Station, is testing the clothes, called J-ware and created by textile experts at Japan Women's University in Tokyo.
"He can wear his trunks (underwear) more than a week," said Koji Yanagawa, an official with the Japanese Aerospace Exploration Agency.
Wakata's clothes, developed by researcher Yoshiko Taya, are designed to kill bacteria, absorb water, insulate the body and dry quickly. They also are flame-resistant and anti-static, not to mention comfortable and stylish.
Japanese astronaut Takao Doi gave the clothes a trial run during a shuttle mission last year. Even after a vigorous workout, Doi's clothes stayed dry.
"The other astronauts become very sweaty, but he doesn't have any sweat. He didn't need to hang his clothes to dry," Yanagawa said.
J-ware should reduce the amount of clothing that needs to be sent to the space station, which has no laundry facilities. Toting cargo into orbit is expensive, so having clothes that stay fresh for weeks at a time should result in significant savings.
The Japanese space agency plans to make the clothes available to NASA and its other space station partners once development is complete. A commercial line also is in the offing.
Taya also is working with clothing manufacturers Toray Industries and Goldwin. on clothes that have a microscopically thin chemical layer in the materials.
Wakata, who arrived at the station last week for a three-month stay, said on Sunday that the clothes appear to be working.
"Nobody has complained, so I think it's so far, so good," Wakata said.
(Editing by Jane Sutton and Cynthia Osterman)
"囉~"
一個"囉"字，簡直係反高潮﹒
一定有人同你講過個囉字﹒
Sorry 囉! 是旦囉! 你鍾意囉!
其實個囉真係好有力，一聽就明當中有幾藐﹒
今日的確有心相贈一個囉字，
"你話得咪得囉!"
其實真係冇對與錯，
一句到底只有值同唔值﹒
一定有人同你講過個囉字﹒
Sorry 囉! 是旦囉! 你鍾意囉!
其實個囉真係好有力，一聽就明當中有幾藐﹒
今日的確有心相贈一個囉字，
"你話得咪得囉!"
其實真係冇對與錯，
一句到底只有值同唔值﹒
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Monday, March 23, 2009
Thursday, March 12, 2009
另一個諗法
寫給未婚夫的分手信
卓韻芝
有智無情者白活，有情無智者亂活﹒
有腦無心者不解情，有心無腦者浪費情﹒
—— 李天命
決定結婚是兩人的事，決定不結婚卻可以是一個人的事；婚姻是（至少）兩個人的決定，離婚卻可以是單方面的決定 —— 怪不得很簡單的機率計算﹒
我們分開了，好嗎？
如果我們還未談婚論嫁，只是隨便拍拖，可能根本不用在這個時候分手（大概會一直等到雙方討厭大家，然後才不再留戀地、心安理得地分手吧）﹒
可惜我們已談到婚事了﹒
我不想作出一個心中帶着疑惑的決定，反而想盡快下定決心——好趁我們未成為互相憎恨的夫婦﹒更諷刺的是，如果只是拍拍拖，我們或許還可以重新嘗試，然而一旦到婚嫁的地步，我知道我兩大概朋友也做不成﹒關係曾經愈親密，兩個人可能在往後分得愈開﹒
這封信，不是為了責怪你，甚至不會控訴／列舉／提出／重提任何我倆不合的原因和例證；一旦決定分開，那些事情，都頓變成小事了﹒
近來，每次與你吵架，我心裡都想着一個問題：到底一個人好？還是兩個人好？
我不是那種渴求婚姻的人，因為我見過不少人為了達到結婚的夢想，連眼前人是否適合也不理會了；我一直提醒自己不要這樣，否則便本末倒置﹒
當然希望自己找到終身伴侶（十分希望！），遠勝獨自上路，但如果拿『不健康的婚姻』，與『健康的單身』相比，我會選擇後者——我不會知道自己餘下的路會否走得健康，但我卻看到這段婚姻不健康的潛力——試着走向健康人生，應該是任何人生活的大前提吧﹒
每當我們意見不合，難聽說話＞憤怒＞罵戰＞眼淚＞冷戰＞哭到很頭痛＞心軟＞拿起止痛餅＞和好＞覺得浪費了大好周日＞雙雙感到無奈＞想起原本可以去看的電影、原本可以逛的街、見的朋友．．．．在這個過程中，我老是想起，如果換轉是自己一個人的話，縱然只會是平淡的一天，卻不會感到無奈傷心吧﹒這個想法漸漸在腦內萌生，慢慢孕育成今天這封信﹒
我見過為了結婚而結婚的人，然後他們為了維繫感情而生孩子，有了孩子後為了維繫家庭而再生一個孩子．．．．如果一開始的起點錯了，就會愈來愈錯了﹒
我們爭吵不算非常頻繁，而且一直都是一些雞皮毛蒜皮的事﹒別人聽到我要跟你分開，都會認『未夠原因去分手』﹒有一套電影叫做＜玫瑰戰爭＞，女主角因為『他吃東西的樣子很難看』而殺死自己的丈夫，其實那個又何嘗是原因，是雞毛蒜皮的小事，積少成多，最終累積成致命一擊﹒
小事比起大事，來得更可怕﹒因為每當人遇上大事，總得被逼面對；小事就不同了，遇上小事的時候，人會慣性逃避，心想裡着『只是小事一則吧』，而沒警覺要把問題解決，結果小事攢積而成千絲萬縷的醜惡局面－面對這情況，人會產生一種無力感，更不懂得解決事情了﹒離異的夫婦們，又有多少能確切地說得出單一件致命大事呢？卻都是千千萬個連講也講不出口的細微事情吧﹒
小事，就如中國五千年歷史裡的小人，他們不致大奸大惡，教科書中甚至無名無性，卻一直陰乾好事，影響大局﹒如果我是歷史家，我會寫一本《真正的罪魁禍首 —— 中國五千年小人全紀錄》﹒
問題並非我們為什麼吵架，而是在我們不和之後，我們是否懂得處理，有沒有真正解決／改善問題，無論問題是多麼微小﹒抑或是為了一時心軟和對擁抱的渴望，就胡亂地言和了﹒在這情況下，「言和」反而變成不顧後果的行為呢﹒
可是，是我想得太多了，太認真了，但如果不三思不認真，又何必結婚？
多謝你讓我相信世上真有感情這回事﹒保重﹒
卓韻芝
有智無情者白活，有情無智者亂活﹒
有腦無心者不解情，有心無腦者浪費情﹒
—— 李天命
決定結婚是兩人的事，決定不結婚卻可以是一個人的事；婚姻是（至少）兩個人的決定，離婚卻可以是單方面的決定 —— 怪不得很簡單的機率計算﹒
我們分開了，好嗎？
如果我們還未談婚論嫁，只是隨便拍拖，可能根本不用在這個時候分手（大概會一直等到雙方討厭大家，然後才不再留戀地、心安理得地分手吧）﹒
可惜我們已談到婚事了﹒
我不想作出一個心中帶着疑惑的決定，反而想盡快下定決心——好趁我們未成為互相憎恨的夫婦﹒更諷刺的是，如果只是拍拍拖，我們或許還可以重新嘗試，然而一旦到婚嫁的地步，我知道我兩大概朋友也做不成﹒關係曾經愈親密，兩個人可能在往後分得愈開﹒
這封信，不是為了責怪你，甚至不會控訴／列舉／提出／重提任何我倆不合的原因和例證；一旦決定分開，那些事情，都頓變成小事了﹒
近來，每次與你吵架，我心裡都想着一個問題：到底一個人好？還是兩個人好？
我不是那種渴求婚姻的人，因為我見過不少人為了達到結婚的夢想，連眼前人是否適合也不理會了；我一直提醒自己不要這樣，否則便本末倒置﹒
當然希望自己找到終身伴侶（十分希望！），遠勝獨自上路，但如果拿『不健康的婚姻』，與『健康的單身』相比，我會選擇後者——我不會知道自己餘下的路會否走得健康，但我卻看到這段婚姻不健康的潛力——試着走向健康人生，應該是任何人生活的大前提吧﹒
每當我們意見不合，難聽說話＞憤怒＞罵戰＞眼淚＞冷戰＞哭到很頭痛＞心軟＞拿起止痛餅＞和好＞覺得浪費了大好周日＞雙雙感到無奈＞想起原本可以去看的電影、原本可以逛的街、見的朋友．．．．在這個過程中，我老是想起，如果換轉是自己一個人的話，縱然只會是平淡的一天，卻不會感到無奈傷心吧﹒這個想法漸漸在腦內萌生，慢慢孕育成今天這封信﹒
我見過為了結婚而結婚的人，然後他們為了維繫感情而生孩子，有了孩子後為了維繫家庭而再生一個孩子．．．．如果一開始的起點錯了，就會愈來愈錯了﹒
我們爭吵不算非常頻繁，而且一直都是一些雞皮毛蒜皮的事﹒別人聽到我要跟你分開，都會認『未夠原因去分手』﹒有一套電影叫做＜玫瑰戰爭＞，女主角因為『他吃東西的樣子很難看』而殺死自己的丈夫，其實那個又何嘗是原因，是雞毛蒜皮的小事，積少成多，最終累積成致命一擊﹒
小事比起大事，來得更可怕﹒因為每當人遇上大事，總得被逼面對；小事就不同了，遇上小事的時候，人會慣性逃避，心想裡着『只是小事一則吧』，而沒警覺要把問題解決，結果小事攢積而成千絲萬縷的醜惡局面－面對這情況，人會產生一種無力感，更不懂得解決事情了﹒離異的夫婦們，又有多少能確切地說得出單一件致命大事呢？卻都是千千萬個連講也講不出口的細微事情吧﹒
小事，就如中國五千年歷史裡的小人，他們不致大奸大惡，教科書中甚至無名無性，卻一直陰乾好事，影響大局﹒如果我是歷史家，我會寫一本《真正的罪魁禍首 —— 中國五千年小人全紀錄》﹒
問題並非我們為什麼吵架，而是在我們不和之後，我們是否懂得處理，有沒有真正解決／改善問題，無論問題是多麼微小﹒抑或是為了一時心軟和對擁抱的渴望，就胡亂地言和了﹒在這情況下，「言和」反而變成不顧後果的行為呢﹒
可是，是我想得太多了，太認真了，但如果不三思不認真，又何必結婚？
多謝你讓我相信世上真有感情這回事﹒保重﹒
Monday, March 09, 2009
沒什麼
有什麼爛攤子沒有收拾過﹒這一刻我很清楚真的沒什麼，我對過往對任何人做過的決定和結果，既沒有後悔亦受得起﹒過得到自己就好了﹒而你過唔過到，我真係無興趣知或我看化了(why would I care or give me a good reason)﹒Do whatever is best for you.
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Saturday, February 21, 2009
The World's Friendliest Countries
Wow~ Hong Kong ranked as TOP 7 world's friendliest countries.
Are you friendly or at least user-friendly?
Are you friendly or at least user-friendly?
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Sunday, February 08, 2009
告別2008
2008的確不容易，
失去兩個曾細心照顧過疼鍚過我嘅家人。
一切發生得太突然，令我一時間難已招架。
心情當然不好受，不過也衷心多謝您曾在我身邊擦亮過。
不竟不想發生的都已發生了，此時此刻只感到有些時候，總是不會表達或難以啟齒，說到一半做了一半，便緊緊關閉收起來。之後剩下一些零零碎碎回憶，卻有許多感動時刻。
以前曾經也會一些幼稚嘅想法，點解你唔做多少少?點解你唔同我講多少少?
難度生女，又唔知女心肝咩?!只可以話我哋嘅緣份比較薄，某情度上很相似唔多expose自己有乜諗法或一些感覺，直至看到您收藏一疊一疊的舊照，您一直也靜靜地竉我。
記得小學時代，美勞手エ我一直都不用橾心，因為交功課之前一晚我瞓着咗之後，都會有奇妙嘅事情發生，瞓醒便會有一幅精緻攞硬A嘅作品，等住我拎番學校貼堂，真係好爽好開心。
失去兩個曾細心照顧過疼鍚過我嘅家人。
一切發生得太突然，令我一時間難已招架。
心情當然不好受，不過也衷心多謝您曾在我身邊擦亮過。
不竟不想發生的都已發生了，此時此刻只感到有些時候，總是不會表達或難以啟齒，說到一半做了一半，便緊緊關閉收起來。之後剩下一些零零碎碎回憶，卻有許多感動時刻。
以前曾經也會一些幼稚嘅想法，點解你唔做多少少?點解你唔同我講多少少?
難度生女，又唔知女心肝咩?!只可以話我哋嘅緣份比較薄，某情度上很相似唔多expose自己有乜諗法或一些感覺，直至看到您收藏一疊一疊的舊照，您一直也靜靜地竉我。
記得小學時代，美勞手エ我一直都不用橾心，因為交功課之前一晚我瞓着咗之後，都會有奇妙嘅事情發生，瞓醒便會有一幅精緻攞硬A嘅作品，等住我拎番學校貼堂，真係好爽好開心。
左麟右李
我都睇咗li個旗英crossover自由人演唱會。
旗英自我陶醉，得意洋洋跟住唱，音亮還要越唱越強。
自由人做足現場反應，雀躍地揮動bon bon棒，就算坐在山頂仍會高聲立喊叫"Alan~Alan"。
實在太高層次，我真係遙不可及。
旗英自我陶醉，得意洋洋跟住唱，音亮還要越唱越強。
自由人做足現場反應，雀躍地揮動bon bon棒，就算坐在山頂仍會高聲立喊叫"Alan~Alan"。
實在太高層次，我真係遙不可及。
Tuesday, February 03, 2009
Sunday, January 04, 2009
Hope for the best
Just hate myself being so numb when I supposed to take action and follow through.
All I could do is to regret and hope for the best!
You're so right...right person does require right timing and obviously the timing is sooo damn wrong this time.
Unfortunately I can't turn my clock back to few months ago but I'm just hoping in the next few months...things would change...may be, who knows? At the mean time, let bygone be bygone!
All I could do is to regret and hope for the best!
You're so right...right person does require right timing and obviously the timing is sooo damn wrong this time.
Unfortunately I can't turn my clock back to few months ago but I'm just hoping in the next few months...things would change...may be, who knows? At the mean time, let bygone be bygone!
Thursday, January 01, 2009
Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Funny Qoute
Leon 記 者 會 俾 個 司 儀 問 到 佢 個 三 七 分 界 髮 型 十 年 如 一 日 ， 好 似 冇 乜 變 過 ， Leon 聽 到 即 刻 起 支 咪 ， 以 金 句 回 應 話 ： 「 其 實 當 年 我 去 英 國 讀 書 時 已 經 是 這 樣 ， 這 個 是 我 的 習 慣 ， 如 果 魚 柳 包 面 的 魚 柳 變 了 就 不 是 魚 柳 包 ， 我 變 和 髮 型 變 是 兩 回 事 ， 不 過 我 個 人 都 是 希 望 不 變 ， 除 非 真 的 很 需 要 。 」 唔 知 內 地 傳 媒 聽 唔 聽 慣 Leon 金 句 呢 ？
Wahahah!!!!!!!What the hell was he trying to say?! I couldn't stop myself laughing while I was traveling in the MTR by myself.
Wahahah!!!!!!!What the hell was he trying to say?! I couldn't stop myself laughing while I was traveling in the MTR by myself.
Monday, November 24, 2008
Sigh~
It is not easy to live healthily.
Having doctor appointment every week is not fun but frustrating.
I am loosing my patience and just want to get rid of it.
Economy going down; so am I.
Am I being punish?
Having doctor appointment every week is not fun but frustrating.
I am loosing my patience and just want to get rid of it.
Economy going down; so am I.
Am I being punish?
Saturday, November 01, 2008
Shanghai
Shanghai I am coming very soon,
going to your origin.
Putting myself back together.
Devote myself to work and move on.
That's what you ask for and this is what I am doing.
You wanted to end up this way... You got it.
When you talked to me, I had nothing to update you coz I truely knew who I am.
What do you expect? I realized the person who I cherished was gone long time ago.
going to your origin.
Putting myself back together.
Devote myself to work and move on.
That's what you ask for and this is what I am doing.
You wanted to end up this way... You got it.
When you talked to me, I had nothing to update you coz I truely knew who I am.
What do you expect? I realized the person who I cherished was gone long time ago.
Monday, October 27, 2008
Not too bad
Avril Lavigne - When You're Gone lyrics
I always needed time on my own
I never thought I'd need you there when I cry
And the days feel like years when I'm alone
And the bed where you lie is made up on your side
When you walk away I count the steps that you take
Do you see how much I need you right now
[Chorus]
When you're gone
The pieces of my heart are missing you
When you're gone
The face I came to know is missing too
When you're gone
The words I need to hear to always get me through the day and make it ok
I miss you
I've never felt this way before
Everything that I do reminds me of you
And the clothes you left, they lie on the floor
And they smell just like you, I love the things that you do
When you walk away I count the steps that you take
Do you see how much I need you right now
[Chorus]
We were made for each other
Out here forever
I know we were, yeah
All I ever wanted was for you to know
Everything I'd do, I'd give my heart and soul
I can hardly breathe I need to feel you here with me, yeah
I always needed time on my own
I never thought I'd need you there when I cry
And the days feel like years when I'm alone
And the bed where you lie is made up on your side
When you walk away I count the steps that you take
Do you see how much I need you right now
[Chorus]
When you're gone
The pieces of my heart are missing you
When you're gone
The face I came to know is missing too
When you're gone
The words I need to hear to always get me through the day and make it ok
I miss you
I've never felt this way before
Everything that I do reminds me of you
And the clothes you left, they lie on the floor
And they smell just like you, I love the things that you do
When you walk away I count the steps that you take
Do you see how much I need you right now
[Chorus]
We were made for each other
Out here forever
I know we were, yeah
All I ever wanted was for you to know
Everything I'd do, I'd give my heart and soul
I can hardly breathe I need to feel you here with me, yeah
Sunday, October 26, 2008
Ice Cream - Ciara Newell
Talk to me
You speak with me
Don't sink before you rise baby
Don't fade away
You hesitate
You seem to wait
For all the time we had
Feels like a world away
Who's to say, we'll be ok
We will make it through the night
Don't wanna wake up in this state
I just want us both to smile
Cause we're the same
And I know that we'll never change
Look I bought your favourite ice cream
I don't wanna see it melt away
If you walk out now
I don't know if we're gonna be the same
Baby just talk with me
Cause I want you to stay here with me
The memories
The things we did
I locked inside my heart
Where I know I won't forget
And now, who's to say, we'll be ok
We will make it through the night
Don't wanna wake up in this state
I just want us both to smile
Cause we're the same
And I know that we'll never change
look I bought your favorite ice ream
I don't want to see it melts away
If you walk out now
I don't know if we could be the same
Baby just talk with me
Cause I want you to stay here with me
I want you to stay here with me
You speak with me
Don't sink before you rise baby
Don't fade away
You hesitate
You seem to wait
For all the time we had
Feels like a world away
Who's to say, we'll be ok
We will make it through the night
Don't wanna wake up in this state
I just want us both to smile
Cause we're the same
And I know that we'll never change
Look I bought your favourite ice cream
I don't wanna see it melt away
If you walk out now
I don't know if we're gonna be the same
Baby just talk with me
Cause I want you to stay here with me
The memories
The things we did
I locked inside my heart
Where I know I won't forget
And now, who's to say, we'll be ok
We will make it through the night
Don't wanna wake up in this state
I just want us both to smile
Cause we're the same
And I know that we'll never change
look I bought your favorite ice ream
I don't want to see it melts away
If you walk out now
I don't know if we could be the same
Baby just talk with me
Cause I want you to stay here with me
I want you to stay here with me
Friday, October 24, 2008
Thursday, October 23, 2008
I did
I was once loved, being in loved, and fall out of love.
There is only certain amount of tears to fall
and I already used up earlier this year.
I don’t feel a thing about it...
I just let time faded things away.
There is only certain amount of tears to fall
and I already used up earlier this year.
I don’t feel a thing about it...
I just let time faded things away.
Paul Sec was on Fire
聖保祿中學疑雪櫃短路火警 (明報)
10月18日 星期六 23:50
跑馬地聖保祿中學晚上十時許疑雪櫃短路火警，消防員到場後很快把火撲滅。
現場是學校教員室，懷疑雪櫃短路，引起火警。消事件中無人受傷。
10月18日 星期六 23:50
跑馬地聖保祿中學晚上十時許疑雪櫃短路火警，消防員到場後很快把火撲滅。
現場是學校教員室，懷疑雪櫃短路，引起火警。消事件中無人受傷。
Thursday, October 16, 2008
SMS
Thanks for all SMS messages and support.
I just want to snap it out.
Get drunk and sleep well.
Snap it out from inside out.
I just want to snap it out.
Get drunk and sleep well.
Snap it out from inside out.
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Thursday, October 09, 2008
Tomorrow
The sun'll come out
Tomorrow
Bet your bottom dollar
That tomorrow
There'll be sun!
Just thinkin' about
Tomorrow
Clears away the cobwebs,
And the sorrow
'Til there's none!
When I'm stuck with a day
That's gray,
And lonely,
I just stick out my chin
And Grin,
And Say,
Oh!
The sun'll come out
Tomorrow
So ya gotta hang on
'Til tomorrow
Come what may
Tomorrow! Tomorrow!
I love ya Tomorrow!
You're always
A day
A way!
Tomorrow
Bet your bottom dollar
That tomorrow
There'll be sun!
Just thinkin' about
Tomorrow
Clears away the cobwebs,
And the sorrow
'Til there's none!
When I'm stuck with a day
That's gray,
And lonely,
I just stick out my chin
And Grin,
And Say,
Oh!
The sun'll come out
Tomorrow
So ya gotta hang on
'Til tomorrow
Come what may
Tomorrow! Tomorrow!
I love ya Tomorrow!
You're always
A day
A way!
Wednesday, October 08, 2008
Monday, October 06, 2008
Sunday, October 05, 2008
惡習
除了一個跟咗我好耐惡習，
其實心裡面一早知道應該點做，
只不過一直"的唔起個心肝"定話係冇勇氣或信心，
所以遲遲都未了事。
其實個惡習亦只不過係不知所惜時的一個逃避。
當已經冇セ嘢好避，個惡習都失去咗佢嘅存在價值。
其實心裡面一早知道應該點做，
只不過一直"的唔起個心肝"定話係冇勇氣或信心，
所以遲遲都未了事。
其實個惡習亦只不過係不知所惜時的一個逃避。
當已經冇セ嘢好避，個惡習都失去咗佢嘅存在價值。
Sleepless in the city
I hear nothing but wind hitting on the window.
Made me wonder ... "Do I have to work tomorrow?"
Just another raining day.
Made me wonder ... "Do I have to work tomorrow?"
Just another raining day.
出爐太空人
認識一位細心的媽媽，正為兒子準備小一入學試，所以不時跟兒子討論時事新聞。
媽：『仔！你知道嗎中國第一個出機槍嘅太空人叫乜嘢名?』
仔：『um...唔知呀！』
媽：『佢叫翟志剛。阿仔！記住啦！』
隔咗一陣，個阿媽又試吓個仔啲記性。
媽：『仔！你記唔記得中國第一個出機槍嘅太空人叫乜嘢名?』
仔：『佢叫擲鐵餅！』
阿媽忍唔住笑，又一次同阿仔講個太空人叫翟志剛，唔係擲鐵餅。
又隔咗一陣，個阿媽又心血來潮，又問個仔同一個問題。
今次阿仔好有信心地答:『佢叫做提子乾！』
阿媽今次真係"受不了"，同阿仔講『有冇攪錯？咪已經話過2次你知叫翟志剛囉！』
雖然把口係話阿仔冇記性，不過心裡覺得阿仔有創意又幽默，番工嘅時侯諗起都忍不住笑。
媽：『仔！你知道嗎中國第一個出機槍嘅太空人叫乜嘢名?』
仔：『um...唔知呀！』
媽：『佢叫翟志剛。阿仔！記住啦！』
隔咗一陣，個阿媽又試吓個仔啲記性。
媽：『仔！你記唔記得中國第一個出機槍嘅太空人叫乜嘢名?』
仔：『佢叫擲鐵餅！』
阿媽忍唔住笑，又一次同阿仔講個太空人叫翟志剛，唔係擲鐵餅。
又隔咗一陣，個阿媽又心血來潮，又問個仔同一個問題。
今次阿仔好有信心地答:『佢叫做提子乾！』
阿媽今次真係"受不了"，同阿仔講『有冇攪錯？咪已經話過2次你知叫翟志剛囉！』
雖然把口係話阿仔冇記性，不過心裡覺得阿仔有創意又幽默，番工嘅時侯諗起都忍不住笑。
Saturday, October 04, 2008
Dealing
There were so many things happened in life,
things that we'd missed and things that we'd done.
Sometimes I felt my life is so small,
yet it is still valuable.
Brave never exist and I am not an adventurer.
I only have that much of myself and how I am fully utilize it.
I wish my grandmother is here patting on my head,
and telling me "take it slow and everything will be fine."
things that we'd missed and things that we'd done.
Sometimes I felt my life is so small,
yet it is still valuable.
Brave never exist and I am not an adventurer.
I only have that much of myself and how I am fully utilize it.
I wish my grandmother is here patting on my head,
and telling me "take it slow and everything will be fine."
Thursday, October 02, 2008
A call from unknown
I received an unknown call this morning,
I said "Hello" "Hello",
the unknown caller didn't say a word.
So I hang up...
After I hang up the phone,
it reminded me of .......
Was it you or was it me?
I said "Hello" "Hello",
the unknown caller didn't say a word.
So I hang up...
After I hang up the phone,
it reminded me of .......
Was it you or was it me?
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
After all....
"True love does not come by finding the perfect person,
but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly."
but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly."
Saturday, September 27, 2008
關係
每一段關係包括家人、朋友、同事及情人，
自問也是小心經營。
也許不是每一段關係十全十美，
我也會盡自己本份去維係，做好自己每一個role。
當一些生活出現不快，
I was trying very hard to cope with the situations,
同時我會盡量去減輕別人擔心。
Some people say, “change is good thing & it made a tribute to life”,
actually what it is saying something we don’t want to happen had happened.
每個人本身都有自己嘅burden,
我的確無資格要別人跟我一起承受。
友人說要跟我長談，
可惜好友太遠太忙，我也不想打久，都一一宛拒。
自小已得寵，
屋企雖然未試過富有，
不過我擁有的不會比別人少。
亦因為這樣，演變一個傳統中國人--“報喜不報憂”。
已長大了要學會承擔，
當日親手種的因，也要自己去嘗其果。
自問也是小心經營。
也許不是每一段關係十全十美，
我也會盡自己本份去維係，做好自己每一個role。
當一些生活出現不快，
I was trying very hard to cope with the situations,
同時我會盡量去減輕別人擔心。
Some people say, “change is good thing & it made a tribute to life”,
actually what it is saying something we don’t want to happen had happened.
每個人本身都有自己嘅burden,
我的確無資格要別人跟我一起承受。
友人說要跟我長談，
可惜好友太遠太忙，我也不想打久，都一一宛拒。
自小已得寵，
屋企雖然未試過富有，
不過我擁有的不會比別人少。
亦因為這樣，演變一個傳統中國人--“報喜不報憂”。
已長大了要學會承擔，
當日親手種的因，也要自己去嘗其果。
Thursday, September 25, 2008
Mood Swing
I hate myself more than anyone.
My instinct is telling things I don't want to hear.
Taking a day off and trying to recover my emotional sickness.
My instinct is telling things I don't want to hear.
Taking a day off and trying to recover my emotional sickness.
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Pushing over the edge
I perceived as a layback person in some people's eyes.
After a few years study in college and working in hospital,
I just work smart instead of working hard.
I learned to simplify my job and still meeting the expectation.
After I moved back home, I picked a relative less stressful job with regular hours.
My job gives me flexibility, so that I can more focus on my life.
I cherish people around me and spend more time and effort on my own VIP.
By the end the day, I was trying to keep my VIP happy with my innovative thoughts and surprises.
Trust me there were many unforgettable moments, which you couldn't even found in romantic fictions.
Sounds sweet but at the same time I was pushing myself over the edge and I was too into what was I doing and became addicted to it.
After a few years study in college and working in hospital,
I just work smart instead of working hard.
I learned to simplify my job and still meeting the expectation.
After I moved back home, I picked a relative less stressful job with regular hours.
My job gives me flexibility, so that I can more focus on my life.
I cherish people around me and spend more time and effort on my own VIP.
By the end the day, I was trying to keep my VIP happy with my innovative thoughts and surprises.
Trust me there were many unforgettable moments, which you couldn't even found in romantic fictions.
Sounds sweet but at the same time I was pushing myself over the edge and I was too into what was I doing and became addicted to it.
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
颱風"黑比格"
今次打風令我諗番上次打風嘅心情，
一個人坐在家中，想自己可以做些什麼。
而今次唔同嘅係知道有乜嘢事，都會係Self-help。
很多事或心情都已經都已經不是紙筆墨可以記錄或描繪，
不過卻真真切切的知道，自己在感情上是一名負支產。
一個人坐在家中，想自己可以做些什麼。
而今次唔同嘅係知道有乜嘢事，都會係Self-help。
很多事或心情都已經都已經不是紙筆墨可以記錄或描繪，
不過卻真真切切的知道，自己在感情上是一名負支產。
喜喜 宴
昨日當好友的姊妹，令我深深感受到她真找到了她的plus one.
一煞那之間百感交習，祝福友人之餘更提醒自己有些事沒有結果，所以不用計劃。
I am sure that they do complete each other.
Thanks for sharing the most valuable moment,
we all had a great time in the party especially "紅E".
一煞那之間百感交習，祝福友人之餘更提醒自己有些事沒有結果，所以不用計劃。
I am sure that they do complete each other.
Thanks for sharing the most valuable moment,
we all had a great time in the party especially "紅E".
Saturday, September 20, 2008
Just a "SEND" button away from the Editor
I just finished my 1st article but I am still thinking about it....
Should I do it? Have to keep my words!Um....
If it works well then great, if not then shit.
Since when I spend so much time on decision making?
I am sure that I am somewhat different.
Should I do it? Have to keep my words!Um....
If it works well then great, if not then shit.
Since when I spend so much time on decision making?
I am sure that I am somewhat different.
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Am I labeled as 「盲中中」
2008年09月16日 星期二
黃毅力 CEO實戰手記：緣分的天空搵真愛
恆久的愛情，都是建基於彼此信任，但當愛沒有互信的基礎，關係又怎能長久？如果不能長久，為何需要擁有？
問世間情為何物？請問大家何謂情，何謂愛？在現今的花花世界，不論年輕的學生、上班的新人、中年男女，其實都弄不清楚甚麼是情，甚麼是愛，再加上有許多「作家」，「作」出他們對愛的看法時，令大家對情愛的認識，弄至一塌糊塗。
最近，我跟一位女性朋友午膳，她向我請教一件事。事緣有一個晚上，她跟一位男性朋友相約在酒吧裡，但當晚那位男士竟不斷灌她渴酒，還這樣跟她說：「妳給我一夜，我給你一生一世。」她聽後感到十分困惑，因為不明白這究竟是一個甚麼關係，也搞不懂甚麼是「愛」，在極度不安的情形下，她立刻拒絕了這位男士。於是她便問我：「如果我不給他，是否代表了我不愛他？他有這個請求，是否代表他很愛我？」我第一個反應是：「傻的，妳已經三十多歲了，這些呃靚妹的說話你也信，你是否『低低地』？他每天晚上可能都跟不同的女孩，說同一樣的說話，可能一晚會說四次，就算四次裡只有一人上釣，他也有『著數』啦？」從心理學角度來說，這些叫「愚蠢的愛」。
突然間，令我想起從前瑞士名錶廣告中的經典金句：「不在乎天長地久，只在乎曾經擁有。」請問你們，會覺得這金句的背後，是否隱藏著一段十分浪漫的愛呢？如果你相信的話，你就「中伏」了！恆久的愛情，都是建基於彼此信任，但當愛沒有互信的基礎，關係又怎能長久？如果不能長久，為何需要擁有？這根本是「搵笨的愛」。
感情事感情了，我原以為自己不會寫這個系列，第一，我不是那些「作家」，能夠「作」出許多戀愛經歷，令成千上萬的迷失少女，或無知少婦，曲解「愛」的真正意思；第二，我也不是神父，滿口都是「愛」。我只可以用實戰的心理學方式，在來臨的數篇文章裡，去跟大家界定何謂「愛」。希望大家在情路上醒目 (Smart)一點。
我寫這個系列的宗旨只有一個：希望大家醒一醒，不要每天「盲中中」，好像進入了百慕達三角洲一樣：去到哪裡，在做甚麼也不知道，以致給別人欺騙，浪費時間，影響事業及前途。同時亦希望你能以客觀的方法，反省你現時的關係，究竟是情還是愛？我最不想看見的，是你親手令自己墮入迷途的深淵，同時，也希望當真愛在大家面前時，你能夠懂得珍惜、包容、信任，及體諒對方。雖然寫這個系列，帶給我無比的壓力，但只要能夠幫助你，在愛情路上迷途知返，一切也值得了。
黃毅力
黃毅力 CEO實戰手記：緣分的天空搵真愛
恆久的愛情，都是建基於彼此信任，但當愛沒有互信的基礎，關係又怎能長久？如果不能長久，為何需要擁有？
問世間情為何物？請問大家何謂情，何謂愛？在現今的花花世界，不論年輕的學生、上班的新人、中年男女，其實都弄不清楚甚麼是情，甚麼是愛，再加上有許多「作家」，「作」出他們對愛的看法時，令大家對情愛的認識，弄至一塌糊塗。
最近，我跟一位女性朋友午膳，她向我請教一件事。事緣有一個晚上，她跟一位男性朋友相約在酒吧裡，但當晚那位男士竟不斷灌她渴酒，還這樣跟她說：「妳給我一夜，我給你一生一世。」她聽後感到十分困惑，因為不明白這究竟是一個甚麼關係，也搞不懂甚麼是「愛」，在極度不安的情形下，她立刻拒絕了這位男士。於是她便問我：「如果我不給他，是否代表了我不愛他？他有這個請求，是否代表他很愛我？」我第一個反應是：「傻的，妳已經三十多歲了，這些呃靚妹的說話你也信，你是否『低低地』？他每天晚上可能都跟不同的女孩，說同一樣的說話，可能一晚會說四次，就算四次裡只有一人上釣，他也有『著數』啦？」從心理學角度來說，這些叫「愚蠢的愛」。
突然間，令我想起從前瑞士名錶廣告中的經典金句：「不在乎天長地久，只在乎曾經擁有。」請問你們，會覺得這金句的背後，是否隱藏著一段十分浪漫的愛呢？如果你相信的話，你就「中伏」了！恆久的愛情，都是建基於彼此信任，但當愛沒有互信的基礎，關係又怎能長久？如果不能長久，為何需要擁有？這根本是「搵笨的愛」。
感情事感情了，我原以為自己不會寫這個系列，第一，我不是那些「作家」，能夠「作」出許多戀愛經歷，令成千上萬的迷失少女，或無知少婦，曲解「愛」的真正意思；第二，我也不是神父，滿口都是「愛」。我只可以用實戰的心理學方式，在來臨的數篇文章裡，去跟大家界定何謂「愛」。希望大家在情路上醒目 (Smart)一點。
我寫這個系列的宗旨只有一個：希望大家醒一醒，不要每天「盲中中」，好像進入了百慕達三角洲一樣：去到哪裡，在做甚麼也不知道，以致給別人欺騙，浪費時間，影響事業及前途。同時亦希望你能以客觀的方法，反省你現時的關係，究竟是情還是愛？我最不想看見的，是你親手令自己墮入迷途的深淵，同時，也希望當真愛在大家面前時，你能夠懂得珍惜、包容、信任，及體諒對方。雖然寫這個系列，帶給我無比的壓力，但只要能夠幫助你，在愛情路上迷途知返，一切也值得了。
黃毅力
Friday, September 12, 2008
當下
「知其易而行難之」
「非知之艱，行之惟艱。」
「言知之易，行之難。」
知道事情的道理並不難，去做起事來就比較難了。
心若改變，你的態度跟著態度改變，你的習慣跟著習慣改變，你的性格跟著性格改變，你的人生跟著改變」
居安思危，珍惜人生每一個當下。
「非知之艱，行之惟艱。」
「言知之易，行之難。」
知道事情的道理並不難，去做起事來就比較難了。
心若改變，你的態度跟著態度改變，你的習慣跟著習慣改變，你的性格跟著性格改變，你的人生跟著改變」
居安思危，珍惜人生每一個當下。
做事要有交代
CEO實戰手記：做事要有交代
現代的職場，不論是有經驗的員工，還是初出茅廬的大學畢業生，他們在工作上往往都不懂甚麼是「交代」。「交代」的定義是上司給你處理一件工作，不論是簡 單、複雜、重要或不重要，在你完成後，或是未完成時，都應該在適當的時候，向上司匯報你的工作進度，這是反映了你的責任感。
年 輕一代做事的態度都是我行我素，而他們做事的方式，都是按?自己一套而行事，認為只要把工作完成便可以；但遇到困難時，又不會請教他人，只懂得逃避；最 後，這件工作往往是石沉大海。他們有一句口頭禪：「你有無諗過我的感受。」還要樣樣都講「自由」，又話工作有壓力、生活有壓力。工作上遇到少少不如意的 事，便選擇逃避而不去面對，最簡單的方法就是「炒老闆魷魚」，或者發脾氣；不太嚴重的就是「依依哦哦」，怨聲載道。
這班我行我素的年輕 人，其實又有否顧及其他人的感受呢？每一個人都有可能成為其他人的壓力，而每份工作都有它的規矩及條理，假若人人都不講規矩，只講自由的話，世界便會天下 大亂。當你有壓力，身邊所有的人同樣都有壓力，尤其是有家庭負擔的職場人士，他們面對壓力時，可以選擇逃避嗎？到最後還是要堅持和有毅力地面對。
大 事是從小事做起的，很多時，老闆會初試牛刀，大材小用地吩咐同事做一些小事，其實都是考驗他們的表現，測試他們的工作態度和完事的方式。例如：老闆可能要 一個大學生去做影印的工作，一個簡單的行為，如果這樣都攪錯，或者弄得「七國咁亂」，老闆又怎樣委以重任，給你做一些更重要的工作呢？又或者你向其他同事 抱怨，為何這些小事要由你做，卻不是樂意去做，當這些說話傳回老闆的耳邊，你就「死得」，做事斤斤計較，做人又怎會成功呢？因此，當我聘請新員工時，不論 他是剛畢業或是經驗老到的員工，我都嘗試用小的工作去訓練他們的交代能力。沒有交代的員工，只會令人覺得他沒有責任感，這絕對給人負面的感覺。
「交 代」的重要性就是當你遇到問題時，你的上司可以第一時間知道及給予支援；又或者你的上司給你一份工作，他假定你可以完成，但你忘記了的話，到最後，可能整 盤計劃或全組的工序，因為缺乏你的環節而完全癱瘓，醒大家一句金句：「Only thing worse than bad news is bad news late！唯一比壞消息更差的是壞消息來晚了。」
「交代」只不過是向上司或老闆知會事情的狀況，一兩句說話便可以了。這麼小的事也做不到，怎能令人相信你能夠擔當更重要的角色呢！若果員工能細心交代，便會給予老闆一個安心的感覺；因為每件事他都會匯報、每件事他都會向上司陳述的話，那這個員工就大有可為。
黃毅力
2008年03月27日 星期四 都市日報
現代的職場，不論是有經驗的員工，還是初出茅廬的大學畢業生，他們在工作上往往都不懂甚麼是「交代」。「交代」的定義是上司給你處理一件工作，不論是簡 單、複雜、重要或不重要，在你完成後，或是未完成時，都應該在適當的時候，向上司匯報你的工作進度，這是反映了你的責任感。
年 輕一代做事的態度都是我行我素，而他們做事的方式，都是按?自己一套而行事，認為只要把工作完成便可以；但遇到困難時，又不會請教他人，只懂得逃避；最 後，這件工作往往是石沉大海。他們有一句口頭禪：「你有無諗過我的感受。」還要樣樣都講「自由」，又話工作有壓力、生活有壓力。工作上遇到少少不如意的 事，便選擇逃避而不去面對，最簡單的方法就是「炒老闆魷魚」，或者發脾氣；不太嚴重的就是「依依哦哦」，怨聲載道。
這班我行我素的年輕 人，其實又有否顧及其他人的感受呢？每一個人都有可能成為其他人的壓力，而每份工作都有它的規矩及條理，假若人人都不講規矩，只講自由的話，世界便會天下 大亂。當你有壓力，身邊所有的人同樣都有壓力，尤其是有家庭負擔的職場人士，他們面對壓力時，可以選擇逃避嗎？到最後還是要堅持和有毅力地面對。
大 事是從小事做起的，很多時，老闆會初試牛刀，大材小用地吩咐同事做一些小事，其實都是考驗他們的表現，測試他們的工作態度和完事的方式。例如：老闆可能要 一個大學生去做影印的工作，一個簡單的行為，如果這樣都攪錯，或者弄得「七國咁亂」，老闆又怎樣委以重任，給你做一些更重要的工作呢？又或者你向其他同事 抱怨，為何這些小事要由你做，卻不是樂意去做，當這些說話傳回老闆的耳邊，你就「死得」，做事斤斤計較，做人又怎會成功呢？因此，當我聘請新員工時，不論 他是剛畢業或是經驗老到的員工，我都嘗試用小的工作去訓練他們的交代能力。沒有交代的員工，只會令人覺得他沒有責任感，這絕對給人負面的感覺。
「交 代」的重要性就是當你遇到問題時，你的上司可以第一時間知道及給予支援；又或者你的上司給你一份工作，他假定你可以完成，但你忘記了的話，到最後，可能整 盤計劃或全組的工序，因為缺乏你的環節而完全癱瘓，醒大家一句金句：「Only thing worse than bad news is bad news late！唯一比壞消息更差的是壞消息來晚了。」
「交代」只不過是向上司或老闆知會事情的狀況，一兩句說話便可以了。這麼小的事也做不到，怎能令人相信你能夠擔當更重要的角色呢！若果員工能細心交代，便會給予老闆一個安心的感覺；因為每件事他都會匯報、每件事他都會向上司陳述的話，那這個員工就大有可為。
黃毅力
2008年03月27日 星期四 都市日報
Thursday, September 11, 2008
Proud of You
I am so proud of you, Manda!
Congrats and it is my pleasure to take part of your big day.
I wish you all the best with all my heart.
Congrats and it is my pleasure to take part of your big day.
I wish you all the best with all my heart.
Call from an editor
Am I interest to be a columnist?
Um.... I am not sure if I can write handsomely.
Do I have anything interesting thingsss to share?
I don't want to bore the readersss.
However I do need a side job for earning some extra money and keeping myself on the run.
Um.... I am not sure if I can write handsomely.
Do I have anything interesting thingsss to share?
I don't want to bore the readersss.
However I do need a side job for earning some extra money and keeping myself on the run.
Monday, September 08, 2008
Sunday, September 07, 2008
Ironic Combo
To lose men through situations that are not within my control -
it just tears me apart.
Everything that I have done and am still doing;
it all just seems so futile right now.
There is no more fight in me left.
I guess its really time for me to move on and time for a change.
I am really not interested to hear about future opportunities and
I definitely do not want to listen to any empty promises.
I feel that any form of reassurance now will only be a formality,
and any promises that eventuality becomes true,
can be saved for future use as it would already be too late.
it just tears me apart.
Everything that I have done and am still doing;
it all just seems so futile right now.
There is no more fight in me left.
I guess its really time for me to move on and time for a change.
I am really not interested to hear about future opportunities and
I definitely do not want to listen to any empty promises.
I feel that any form of reassurance now will only be a formality,
and any promises that eventuality becomes true,
can be saved for future use as it would already be too late.
Saturday, September 06, 2008
Corruption
Cause and effect.. Question and Answer... Reason and Result..
When a situation getting ugly..
how to embellish it?
Disregard the fact and simply one word -"whatever",
it could close the scene flawlessly.
It is hard to deal with the worse version of oneself,
entitle as a victim or sick in the head.
Mercy will be given and cover all the offense.
A little monster is created and living inside of you.
When the little monster got hungry ,
it is going to hop and chew on you for the unforgiven fault.
When a situation getting ugly..
how to embellish it?
Disregard the fact and simply one word -"whatever",
it could close the scene flawlessly.
It is hard to deal with the worse version of oneself,
entitle as a victim or sick in the head.
Mercy will be given and cover all the offense.
A little monster is created and living inside of you.
When the little monster got hungry ,
it is going to hop and chew on you for the unforgiven fault.
Thursday, September 04, 2008
Purple Turlips
I went to the flower market after I got off work yesterday.
I walked through the street and check out all flower shops.
There are many many different flowers... real and fake.
There was only a flower shop selling tulip and daisy.
I bought myself a bundle of purple tulips and
hoping it is going to brighten my day.
Purple tulip and daisy are both my favorite flowers;
not all the girls like roses...
Irritating
Got 7 hours straight sleep.
I supposed to feel recharge when I got up this morning,
but when I got up and looked at the mirror...
It was so unpleasant and I am tire of myself.
Everyday starts the same and ends the same.
Things all over me again.
Nothing but repeating and repelling.
I got myself out of work after lunch.
My life is so small yet so complex.
I supposed to feel recharge when I got up this morning,
but when I got up and looked at the mirror...
It was so unpleasant and I am tire of myself.
Everyday starts the same and ends the same.
Things all over me again.
Nothing but repeating and repelling.
I got myself out of work after lunch.
My life is so small yet so complex.
Tuesday, September 02, 2008
If you give a Pig a Pancake
I would like what is going to happen?! Pig & Pancake?!
Where I am going to get this book? Um.....
I miss IHOP and saving couponsssssssss
You've Got Mail
What a coincident?
I just bought an old movie "You've Got Mail" and Pearl is showing it this Friday.
Maybe I meant to watch it twice this week and review every moments in my mind.
This movie meant alot to me.... Do you know what I am talking about?
I've got mail too.
Monday, September 01, 2008
Saturday, August 30, 2008
落難
I am not a princess. I do not belong to a wealthy family or royalty. I am willing to pay handsomely, as long as you help me succeed in the future, and you can wait.
Long Lasting Smile
Still a refreshing smile on the century old poster.
Wondering~ how she felt when she took this picture?
Did she expect to last that long?
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
On behalf of MSN/hotmail
Never received that email you sent yesterday.
Maybe I'll receive it tomorrow?
Just want to say sorry on behalf of MSN/hotmail ....
Smiling to you !!!
Maybe I'll receive it tomorrow?
Just want to say sorry on behalf of MSN/hotmail ....
Smiling to you !!!
Monday, August 25, 2008
Ache
Head & shoulder~ Knee & Toe~
My neck and back also joined the ache party!
I need a core-shaker not shaker to shake the core out of me.
Maybe I should start reading the Chinese Tung Ching before I head out everyday.
So dark!
My neck and back also joined the ache party!
I need a core-shaker not shaker to shake the core out of me.
Maybe I should start reading the Chinese Tung Ching before I head out everyday.
So dark!
Nourishing my mind
I have to put myself together to read.
Just reading is quite boring just word by word, however it is a efficient way to reach your mind.
It takes time to digest and get the ideas out of it.
Maybe that's why some people are better with written response; it gives time to cool down and choosing the right words to sue you. (if you did experience in a traffic accident you know what I am talking about :p)
I wouldn't read without my patient.
Reading requires a peaceful mind and critical thinking at the same time.
Guess what I am reading? It is a best seller one of those books, which cleared 60 weeks on New York Times best-seller list. It is quite an intellectual book with interesting storyline.
Just reading is quite boring just word by word, however it is a efficient way to reach your mind.
It takes time to digest and get the ideas out of it.
Maybe that's why some people are better with written response; it gives time to cool down and choosing the right words to sue you. (if you did experience in a traffic accident you know what I am talking about :p)
I wouldn't read without my patient.
Reading requires a peaceful mind and critical thinking at the same time.
Guess what I am reading? It is a best seller one of those books, which cleared 60 weeks on New York Times best-seller list. It is quite an intellectual book with interesting storyline.
Now Hiring
Seeking a personal butler. Duties include:
Cook and clean; do groceries; do laundry; change my bedsheets; wake me; put me in bed; drive me; take and make appointments; put together and maintain my schedule, i.e. keep track of what i do and make sure i stay on track; keep me happy; massage my muscles; massage my brain; pay my bills; help me manage my debt; develop saving and investment plans for me when i can finally afford them; bathe me; remind me to use the gym; remind me of birthdays; screen my phone calls; screen my emails; call my mother once a week; check on my sisters every once in a while and nag them; email my aunt and my sisters at least once a month; remind me that i have friends and need to socialize to keep them; make sure i'm thinking, listening, writing and corresponding, and that i am actively creative; find interesting places for me to do photo shoots; keep track of show schedules at my favorite venues and with my favorite artists; disappear when not needed, and magically reappear when in need; be a father figure at certain times, be my slaves during others - just to name a few.
I am not a princess. I do not belong to a wealthy family or royalty. I am willing to pay handsomely, as long as your service help me succeed in the future, and you can wait.
Cook and clean; do groceries; do laundry; change my bedsheets; wake me; put me in bed; drive me; take and make appointments; put together and maintain my schedule, i.e. keep track of what i do and make sure i stay on track; keep me happy; massage my muscles; massage my brain; pay my bills; help me manage my debt; develop saving and investment plans for me when i can finally afford them; bathe me; remind me to use the gym; remind me of birthdays; screen my phone calls; screen my emails; call my mother once a week; check on my sisters every once in a while and nag them; email my aunt and my sisters at least once a month; remind me that i have friends and need to socialize to keep them; make sure i'm thinking, listening, writing and corresponding, and that i am actively creative; find interesting places for me to do photo shoots; keep track of show schedules at my favorite venues and with my favorite artists; disappear when not needed, and magically reappear when in need; be a father figure at certain times, be my slaves during others - just to name a few.
I am not a princess. I do not belong to a wealthy family or royalty. I am willing to pay handsomely, as long as your service help me succeed in the future, and you can wait.
Saturday, August 23, 2008
Same old song is still playing
I hear the clock, its six a.m.
I feel so far away from where Ive been
I got my eggs, I got my pancakes too
Got my maple syrup, everything but you
I break the yolks and make a smiley face
I kinda like it in my brand new place
I wipe the spots off of the mirror, dont leave the keys in the door
I never put wet towels on the floor anymore cause
Dreams last so long, even after youre gone
I know, that you love me and soon you will see
You were meant for me and I was meant for you
I called my momma, she was out for a walk
Consoled a cup of coffee but it didnt wanna talk
So picked up a paper, it was more bad news
More hearts being broken or people being used
Put on my coat in the pouring rain
I saw a movie it just wasnt the same
cause it was happy and I was sad and
It made me miss you oh so bad cause
Dreams last so long, even after youre gone
I know, that you love me and soon you will see
You were meant for me and I was meant for you
I go about my business, Im doing fine
Besides, what would I say if I had you on the line
Same old story, not much to say
Hearts are broken every day
I brush my teeth and put the cap back on
I know you hate it when I leave the light on
I pick up a book and turn the sheets down and then
Take a deep breath and a good look around
Put on my pjs and hop into bed
Im half alive but I feel mostly dead
I, I try and tell myself itll be all right
I just shouldnt think anymore tonight cause
Dreams last so long, even after youre gone
I know, that you love me and soon you will see
You were meant for me and I was meant for you
Yeah, you were meant for me and I was meant for you
I feel so far away from where Ive been
I got my eggs, I got my pancakes too
Got my maple syrup, everything but you
I break the yolks and make a smiley face
I kinda like it in my brand new place
I wipe the spots off of the mirror, dont leave the keys in the door
I never put wet towels on the floor anymore cause
Dreams last so long, even after youre gone
I know, that you love me and soon you will see
You were meant for me and I was meant for you
I called my momma, she was out for a walk
Consoled a cup of coffee but it didnt wanna talk
So picked up a paper, it was more bad news
More hearts being broken or people being used
Put on my coat in the pouring rain
I saw a movie it just wasnt the same
cause it was happy and I was sad and
It made me miss you oh so bad cause
Dreams last so long, even after youre gone
I know, that you love me and soon you will see
You were meant for me and I was meant for you
I go about my business, Im doing fine
Besides, what would I say if I had you on the line
Same old story, not much to say
Hearts are broken every day
I brush my teeth and put the cap back on
I know you hate it when I leave the light on
I pick up a book and turn the sheets down and then
Take a deep breath and a good look around
Put on my pjs and hop into bed
Im half alive but I feel mostly dead
I, I try and tell myself itll be all right
I just shouldnt think anymore tonight cause
Dreams last so long, even after youre gone
I know, that you love me and soon you will see
You were meant for me and I was meant for you
Yeah, you were meant for me and I was meant for you
黑夜不再來
如果將街燈的光線代表真愛
或者熄燈了會更發現你存在
如果日落西山燈光普照麻木了
蒙住這雙眼令黑夜再來
誰叫我這樣活該
縛起雙手給你愛
愛到兩腳浸沒在大海不懂再走開
熟悉的想講再會
陌生的都很匹配
難怪我永遠懷念飛灰
如果將香煙點給我代表深愛
莫非煙熄了會更震憾與期待
難道討好我等於鼓勵我去歧視你
一手將心摔下來
嫌棄你想再會
被丟低想反悔
誰叫我要靠別人待薄才配
如果一呼氣一吸氣代表相愛
或者淹死我會更發現你存在
如果日夜一起想不起我曾被愛
難道分手會令感動再來
Friday, August 22, 2008
Thingsss I want to do alone
Have an openface salmon bagel sandwich for breakfast. (All for me none for you :p)
Explore the antique stores and art galleries to enrich my creative mind.
Visit the lovely kitties & doggies in SPCA.
Watch a movie.
Check out the best sellers in local bookstore.
Have a cup of tall skim latte.
Taking picture of everything that amuses me.
Taking aride on the tram with HKD$4 round trip.
Budget Dating w/ city!
Going to be so proud of myself if I get it done.
Explore the antique stores and art galleries to enrich my creative mind.
Visit the lovely kitties & doggies in SPCA.
Watch a movie.
Check out the best sellers in local bookstore.
Have a cup of tall skim latte.
Taking picture of everything that amuses me.
Taking aride on the tram with HKD$4 round trip.
Budget Dating w/ city!
Going to be so proud of myself if I get it done.
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
Seeking for Enlightenment
Dealing with too much shitssss for life...
I wish someone or something, that can enlighten my mind.
I was trying to read from different people and learn different perceptions...
When was the last time you have a decent conversation?
A conversation that we learn something out of it without critizing or judgement.
Carefree seems to be pessimistic.
I wish someone or something, that can enlighten my mind.
I was trying to read from different people and learn different perceptions...
When was the last time you have a decent conversation?
A conversation that we learn something out of it without critizing or judgement.
Carefree seems to be pessimistic.
Monday, August 04, 2008
Unresolved Mystery
There are some unresolved mysteries buried in my heart. I am not sure that if I really want to dig it or hide it. I need to study my own manual and figure for next stepsss.
3 Years
I left for 3 years, it seemed like I am back to where I started.
Did I spend 3 years or waste 3 years?
Did I push to sleep for the last 3 years?
When I woke up this morning, I was not quite sure where I was.
Everything just turned up-side-down.
Many many questions went through my mind.
Sick in my head.....
Did I spend 3 years or waste 3 years?
Did I push to sleep for the last 3 years?
When I woke up this morning, I was not quite sure where I was.
Everything just turned up-side-down.
Many many questions went through my mind.
Sick in my head.....
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