Seeking for Enlightenment

Dealing with too much shitssss for life...
I wish someone or something, that can enlighten my mind.
I was trying to read from different people and learn different perceptions...
When was the last time you have a decent conversation?
A conversation that we learn something out of it without critizing or judgement.
Carefree seems to be pessimistic.

Unresolved Mystery

There are some unresolved mysteries buried in my heart. I am not sure that if I really want to dig it or hide it. I need to study my own manual and figure for next stepsss.

3 Years

I left for 3 years, it seemed like I am back to where I started.
Did I spend 3 years or waste 3 years?
Did I push to sleep for the last 3 years?
When I woke up this morning, I was not quite sure where I was.
Everything just turned up-side-down.
Many many questions went through my mind.
Sick in my head.....

Bring me to live

Am I being cynical? I don't see a clear picture of myself.

How are you?

When will you say "How are you?"?

Do we say it for ice-breaking or we really mean to it?
Sometimes it is kinda of weird to say it to somebody especially old friends.... buddies.. or someone you know well enough. Knowing each other for such as long time, isn't we suppose to read each other like a book? Maybe I am just too demanding...

A Room in My Heart

I would never forget those days, when I was still a child and always in your arms. Your songs, stories and words are always in my mind and I am going to live with it. Thanks for picking me up and shaping me a better person, you are always in my heart- my beloved person.

Egocentric

Sometimes you'll be so tired that you just want to give up. but when you look around you, everyone is just as tired as you but no one is stopping or complaining. that's when you realise you shouldn't complain as well.

心情不再

Are we going to feel the same?

Sept Popular Song~

For some reasons this song is kinda of telling the truth....
Disappointment after the fairytale

得到同樣快樂 彼此亦有沮喪
童話書從成長中難免要學會失望
經過同樣上落 彼此墮進灰網
沉溺 煩擾 磨折 何苦 多講
擁有同樣寄望 彼此亦有苦況
棉花糖從成長中曾送你愉快天堂
經過同樣跌盪 可會學會釋放
童話 情書 遺書 尋找 答案
曾經... 曾經... 回憶當天三歲波板糖

你好

從前不只你懂得說一聲你好
但等不到一個再見會重遇過

Bird

You Would Be a Pet Bird

You're intelligent and witty, yet surprisingly low maintenance. You charm people easily, and they usually love you a lot more than you love them. You resent anyone who tries to own or control you. You refuse to be fenced in. Why you would make a great pet: You're very smart and entertaining Why you would make a bad pet: You're not interested in being anyone's pet! What you would love about being a bird: Flying, obviously What you would hate about being a bird: Being caged

What Kind of Pet Would You Be?

Down

The reason why i'm feeling down is ..
So similar, yet so different. all at the same time.

標點符號

小時候寫文章﹐總不太會運用標點符號。甚麼逗號﹐句號﹐分號......形形式式﹐容易混淆。尤其逗號跟句號﹐永遠也不知道怎樣為之句子的停頓或完結。那時﹐只懂一概用上逗號﹐直至文章完結。當然﹐那換來一大堆紅色的改錯。經過多年的學習﹐總算運用得比較正確。其實﹐完結﹐除了用句號﹐還可以用感嘆號吧!

Egg-cellent

Eggs are so incredible because of its economical high quality protein, vitamins and minerals. Eggs contain the carotenoids lutein and zeaxanthin, which are important for healthy vision. They also contain naturally occurring vitamin D, which is important for building strong bone and teeth along with calcium. Health experts no longer consider it necessary to limit eggs to three times a week among healthy people. The Department of Health maintains its recommendation to limit cholesterol to 300 mg a day.
There are many types of eggs in the market in addition to the classic white shell eggs.
· Omega-3 enriched
Omega-3 enriched eggs are developed by adding a plant source of omega-3 fatty acids, such as flaxseed, to the laying hen’s feed. These eggs are not lower in cholesterol.
· Brown eggs.
Eggshell’s color depends on hens’ genetics. It does not influence nutritional value.
· Free-range or free-run eggs.
Free-range chickens have access to outdoor runs. Free-run hens roam in open-concept barns with nests and perches.
· Organic eggs.
These hens are fed rations grown without pesticides, fungicides, herbicides or commercial fertilizer. The hens are not fed hormones.
Color of the yolk. Egg yolk color varies according to the hen’s feed. Wheat-fed hen’s egg yolks are lighter than a hen fed corn or greens.
Freshness. A fresh egg will sink in water. An older egg will float because the size of the air cell increases with age. When you purchase eggs, look at the date on the carton for the freshest eggs.
Eggs are one of the convenient healthy foods. If you’re in a hurry in the morning, a hard boiled egg is good to go.

Bean-ifcial

Beans are a super food with a unique combination of protein, fiber, vitamins and minerals. Beans contain significance of protein with no saturated fat and cholesterol. This makes beans a great choice for vegetarians and people trying to limit the high fat meat products. Beans are excellent sources of fiber. Half a cup of cooked dried beans provides 20% or more of your daily fiber needs. Fiber has many benefits such as filling you up after a meal, maintaining the blood sugar level, and lowering the “bad” LDL cholesterol level. Beans are good sources of vitamins and minerals such as folate, potassium, iron and magnesium. Research has shown that diet including beans may reduce the risk of heart disease and certain cancers. Folate is especially important for heart health as well as prevention of birth defects.
Getting 3 Cups a Week
Adults are encouraged to eat three cups of beans a week. Count beans as a vegetable or as a meat serving. One-half cup of cooked dried bean is equivalent to 2 ounces of meat or 1/2 cup of vegetable serving. These little beans are delicious anytime of the year. Try some when they are featured on your menu.

Dilemma

"No gain no pain" or "Never ask for return"
More is not always better.

So much work to do

I didn't realize that I still have so much shit to do.
How am I going to get everything done by this month,
when today is 28th June (Thursday):p
Sometimes work could be challenging,
dealing with different people (in another words: bitches, assholes, Mr/ Ms Blame).
Work sucks..... Have to plan for a trip to Shanghai again & again
Life goes on.

What Kind of Friend Are You?

You Are A Loyal Sidekick

While you aren't the most visable one in your group... You're always up for a good time or conversation And you stick with your friends no matter what You may feel underappreciated - but it only seems that way!

What Kind of Friend Are You?

What is your objective?

My objective is to get every penny.
Your objective is to keep every penny.

A song that speaks my mind

I saw a movie it just wasn't the same
'Cause it was happy and I was sad
It made me miss you oh so bad 'cause
Dreams last for so long
Even after you're gone
I know you love me
And soon you will see
You were meant for me
And I was meant for you.
I go about my business, I'm doin fine
Besides what would I say if I had you on the line
Same old story, not much to say
Hearts are broken, everyday.
I brush my teeth and put the cap back on
I know you hate it when I leave the light on
I pick a book up. Turn the sheets down.
Take a deep breath and a good look around
Put on my pjs and hop into bed
I'm half alive but I feel mostly dead
I try and tell myself it'll be all right
I just shouldn't think anymore tonight 'cause
Dreams last for so long
Even after you're gone
I know you love me
And soon I know you will see
You were meant for me
And I was meant for you

Yeah.... You were meant for me and I was meant for you.

There was a time

There was a time I thought I am tough enough to handle things. Even when things didn't fall into the right places; I'll be fine & able to adapt well.
There was a time I was down, I just couldn't fall any tears. I thought maybe it wasn't that bad, but actually it even worse. I wasn't quick enough to react. I wish I can just let it out instead of holding everything inside of me.
There was a time I didn't say a word not because I have nothing to say. I just simply don't know how or it is going to make no difference on what you perceive from me.

Why a tie?

I just wanted to fulfill one of items on your wish list.

What's Your Personality Type?

You Are An ISFJ

The Nurturer You have a strong need to belong, and you very loyal. A good listener, you excell at helping others in practical ways. In your spare time, you enjoy engaging your senses through art, cooking, and music. You find it easy to be devoted to one person, who you do special things for. You would make a good interior designer, chef, or child psychologist.

What's Your Personality Type?

Is that the reason?

You Communicate With Your Ears

You love conversations, both as a listener and a talker. What people say is important to you, and you're often most affected by words, not actions. You love to hear complements from others. And when you're upset, you often talk to yourself. Music is very important to you. It's difficult to find you without your iPod.

How Do You Communicate?

With all my hearts

A gift of dark chocolate on Valentine’s Day may give your sweetheart a healthy heart. Oleic acid, a monounsaturated fat found in olive oil, makes up one-third of fat in dark chocolate. Eating food with oleic acid as part of a healthful eating plan has been shown to be beneficial for heart health. There are certain antioxidants in chocolate, which may help to prevent cholesterol from sticking to artery walls, reducing the risk of heart attack and stroke. Chocolate also contains flavoniods, the same compounds found in red wine and tea, which are currently being studied for their potential health benefits. The darker the chocolate, the more antioxidants and flavonoids it contains. When tasting dark chocolate, stay in your mouth for a few seconds to release its primary flavors and aromas. Then chew it a few times to release the secondary aromas. Let it rest lightly against the roof of your month as you experience the full range of flavors. Finally enjoy the remaining taste in your mouth. Don’t forget the amount of chocolate you eat can make a difference in your calories intake, so enjoy it in moderation.

This Valentine’s Day try the Dark Chocolate Coated Strawberry to surprise your sweetie something from your heart.

Dark Chocolate Coated Strawberry (20 servings)

Ingredients
6 ounces dark chocolate

3 tablespoons half & half cream

1/2 tablespoon unsalted butter

20 large strawberries

Directions
In a microwave-safe bowl combine chocolate and cream, heat in the microwave on high 1½ to 2 minutes, stirring occasionally, until smooth.
Add butter and stir until melted and mixture is smooth.
Holding berries by stem, dip each one in molten chocolate, about three-quarters of the way to the stem.
Transfer the coated strawberries on the waxed paper and repeat process.
Allow the chocolate to cool and then chill the strawberries until chocolate is set.
Each Dark Chocolate Coated Strawberry: 56 kcal; 3g fat; 1.9g saturated fat; cholesterol 2 milligram; Vitamin C 14 milligram.

Weep not for the memories

I'm so tired but I can't sleep
Standing on the edge of something much too deep
It's funny how we feel so much but we cannot say a word
We are screaming inside, but we can't be heard
Remember the good times that we had?
I let them slip away from us when things got bad

Do you know do you know where you going to

Do you know where you're going to?
Do you like the things that life is showing you
Where are you going to? Do you know?
Do you get what you're hoping for
When you look behind you there's no open door
What are you hoping for? Do you know?
Once we were standing still in time
Chasing the fantasies
That filled our minds
You know how I loved you
But my spirit was free
Laughin' at the questions
That you once asked of me
Now looking back at all we've planned
We let so many dreams
Just slip through our hands
Why must we wait so long
Before we'll see
How sad the answers
To those qusetions can be

Wish List

1. D-cam (Panasonic Lumix)
2. MOTOKRZR K1
3. Nintendo NDS
4. Nintendo WII
5. Leather Jacket
6. A trip to Europe
7. Clothings Sponsors
8. Mini Cooper
9. Free Parking
10. A Cute Kitty
& Many More.......

Do you ICQ?

It was popular before all those AIM, yahoo msg ,MSN and even SMS.
I didn't check my ICQ a/c from ages,
all a sudden I was thinking....... is there anyone using ICQ?
Result there were only 2 persons on my list using ICQ and
both of they were away.....
What is wrong with ICQ? Why all sudden everyone switch to everywhere else?

Lijiang Guanfang Hotel

http://www.gfhotel-lijiang.com.cn/

It is freezing here ('_')

Santa Claus is Coming to Town

Every Christmas Eve Santa Claus rides in his sleigh pulled by flying reindeers from place to place to deliver gifts to children. What kind of snacks can give him energy but don’t slow him down? If Santa drinks a glass of whole milk and 2 cookies at every household he visits, he will consume at least 3 billion calories and over 1 million grams of fat that night. In order to keep Santa’s trip jolly and able to squeeze down everyone’s chimney; the best snacks for Santa should contain carbohydrate for energy and protein for fuel.

Tips for healthful Christmas snacks:
1. Skim milk instead of whole milk. A cup of skim milk contains 90 calories and less than 3 grams of fat.
2. Substitute high fat cookies with gingersnaps or graham crackers can save up to 160 calories and 8 grams of fat per serving.
3. Refreshing veggie platter with celery, carrot, cucumber and tomato with light Ranch dressing are great treats for Santa and his reindeers.
4. Jolly fruit compote with strawberry, raspberry, blueberry, grape, kiwi, pineapple and orange, topped with fat-free yogurt, cinnamon and nutmeg.

With a little planning and creative mind, you can maximize your Christmas food choices without expanding your waistline.

Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!

Happy for you

I am so happy to hear from my buddy.
Keep it up p(^0^)q Cheers!!!!!

Sleep Less & Weight More

Sleeping is an important part of our lives; lack of sleep would affect on judgment and is prone to make mistakes. However, it is not the whole story, lack of sleep would cause to gain weight. There are hormones ghrelin and leptin in our bodies; which are responsible to regulate hunger and appetite. The level of ghrelin and leptin in our bodies may be affected by lack of sleep. When the level of these hormones falls, our hunger level rises and appetite increases. Therefore low hormone levels due to sleep deprivation can result in overeating and weight gain. Most people seem to do best, when they get between seven to nine hours of sleep. Missing a night of sleep on special occasion is nothing need to worry, but consistently lack of sleep can deteriorate the body functions. If you can have a better control on leptin and ghrelin levels, you may also be able to control your appetite and stay away from the unwanted snacking.
5 simple ways to have a good night’s sleep and cope with weight control
1. Stay away from caffeine, alcohol and nicotine in late afternoon and evening.
2. Stay active and exercise regularly, but not before the bedtime.
3. Set a sleeping cycle, which enables your biological clock to prepare for the sleeping mode.
4. Relax before bed, read a book, take a bath and listen to relaxing music before climbing to bed.
5. Don’t lie in bed awake, bed should be associated with sleep and avoid reading and watching TV in bed.

August 15th

What is your first association of Moon Festival? Would it be the first lady on the moon- Chang-O or Moon cake? As Moon Festival comes closer, the moon cakes’ pictures are everywhere. There are many different kinds of moon cake in the market such as traditional white lotus seed paste moon cake, snowy moon cake and ice cream moon cake etc… But after all they all have the same characteristic – high in calorie, fat and sugar.
According to the research conducted by the Consumer Council on 9 different moon cakes, a typical double egg yolk white lotus seed paste moon cake (190g) contains over 800 kcal (more than 3 bowls of rice in calorie) and over 800 mg of cholesterol (the daily recommendation on cholesterol is less than 300 mg), 16 teaspoons of sugar and 8 teaspoons of oil. On a daily basis, one should eat no more than one-eighth to a quarter of a moon cake. Beside moon cake, delicious seasonal fruits such as grapefruit, persimmon, star fruit and pear could also add more festivity to Mid-Autumn in a nutritious way.

Feel like shhhhhhhh

Nothing... That's it

An apple a day keeps the doctor away

During the hot summer, fruit is always the great choice for snack. Among all the fruits, apple is always on the top of the fruit list through the year.

Apples are packed with important vitamins, minerals and also fiber. Pectin is the soluble fiber found in some fruits such as apple, which keeps the colon healthy by increasing the bowel movements. The natural sugar in apple, fructose released slowly into the blood stream and stabilized the blood sugar level. Lastly, the fiber in apples reduces cholesterol level and various forms of inflammation.

Simply consuming an apple a day can give your body a program of deep cleaning. Apples are always there for you and you can enjoy anytime of the day – perfectly portable, juicy, crunchy, refreshing, nutritious and ready to keep you going.

在炎炎夏日，水果總是健康小食的首選。而在眾多水果中蘋果可算是全年皆宜的水果之冠。蘋果含豐富的維他命、礦物質和纖維素，而當中的果膠屬水溶纖維，能增加大腸蠕動之餘，還有助維持腸臟健康。蘋果的果糖被消化後，會慢慢地在血流釋放，有穩定血糖的效用。蘋果含豐富的纖維素，有降膽固醇和防炎功效。只需每天吃一個蘋果，就可以為身體提供深層清潔。不論任何天氣，每天你也可以享受蘋果的香脆、清涼、多汁。而且蘋果營養豐富、方便攜帶，絕對是健康之選。

Not Good Enough

It seems like it is never good enough.
Too much, too little, too long, too far, too hot....toooooooo
Is there anything good about it?

After a few business trips

After a few trips to Beijing, Guangzhou and Shanghai,
I would like to conclude Shanghai is best place in China.
People are more civilize than other part of China.

My 1st Business Trip to Beijing

I had been to Forbidden City and outside Tian’anmen Square.
However didn’t have enough time to go Great Wall.
Quick trip but very productive.
Very Impressive.

Stay or Gone

Memory stays.
Reflection changed.
People I used to know were gone and I left.
Am I still knowing who I am?

Belong

I need a place to stay with comfort.
Too many people, too many noise, too hot and too much drama.
Am I belong here?
Can't find a place to rest, or a place I want to stay any longer.

Rainy Day

Rainy day never say good bye

Artist again

Your Scholastic Strength Is Deep Thinking

You aren't afraid to delve head first into a difficult subject, with mastery as your goal. You are talented at adapting, motivating others, managing resources, and analyzing risk. You should major in: Philosophy Music Theology Art History Foreign language

What Should You Major In?

Cool

You Play it Cool

You're not in your face, smokin' hot... and it's all by design You have a carefully crafted cool persona, leaving everyone wanting to know just a little more.

Are You Hot?

I told you " I am an Artist! hahahaha"

You Should Get a MFA (Masters of Fine Arts)

You're a blooming artistic talent, even if you aren't quite convinced. You'd make an incredible artist, photographer, or film maker.

What Advanced Degree Should You Get?

Ridiculous I am a Capricorn too

Your True Love Is a Capricorn

Why you'll love a Capricorn: Hard working and driven, a Capricorn will work overtime to win your heart. Be prepared to get wined and dined, even once you're convince that your Capricorn is the one! Why a Capricorn will love you: You don't rush things. You know it will take a while for a Capricorn to trust you, and you can wait. Social and outgoing, you can introduce normally shy Capricorn to a great circle of friends.

What Sign Is Your True Love?

January 16th

Your Birthdate: January 16

You're incredibly introverted and introspective. You live inside your head. You spend a lot of alone time meditating and thinking. People see you as withdrawn, and at times they are right. You are caring and deep, but it may be difficult for you to show this side of yourself. Your strength: Your original approach to thinking Your weakness: You tend to shy away from others Your power color: Pale blue Your power symbol: Wavy line Your power month: July

What Does Your Birth Date Mean?

July 1st

Your Birthdate: July 1

You are a natural born leader, even if those leadership talents haven't been developed yet. You have the power and self confidence to succeed in life, and your power grows daily. Besides power, you also have a great deal of creativity that enables you to innovate instead of fail. You are a visionary, seeing the big picture instead of all of the trivial little details. Your strength: Your supreme genius Your weakness: Your inappropriate sensitivity Your power color: Gold Your power symbol: Star Your power month: January

What Does Your Birth Date Mean?

Life

How You Life Your Life

You are honest and direct. You tell it like it is. You are always tactful and diplomatic. You let people down gently. You prefer a variety of friends and tend to change friends quickly. You tend to dream big, but you worry that your dreams aren't attainable.

How Do You Live Your Life?

Wow

You Are An Invisible Ex

You're so over your ex, you hardly even remember you have an ex You prefer leave all of the baggage behind you - far, far behind As they say, indifference is the opposite of love!

What Type of Ex Are You?

Missing Something

Am I suppose to feel satisify?
What is enough?
Are human-want unlimited?

Investment

I was spending so much on suits and shoes.
I couldn't believe that I was spending so much money on those thingsssss.
One of the suits I tried on,
Totally like the restaurant manager.
A suit is just a work uniform,
But it was too expensive.
I don't have a sponsor...
I am so broke.
I became a non-profit organization again.


I hope you read this.
Your poor babe

It's all about 3

I been spending 3 days+ with someone special,
I am going to work for another 3 days,
and I am going to have 3 days long weekend.
I hope it works like this forever.

廣告金句者，就係廣告日播夜播吟到上腦的金句是也！

由朝坐到晚 運動少
周身骨痛精神壞
無佢o黎保養
快蒼老 易捱壞
我o地o甘辛苦
擒高擒低靠腰力 靠腳力
調補身體最緊要
病君咁樣點搵食
鋤得多 傷氣力
消耗一定要補充
唔駛失威悲到極
你o地諗o下啦
咦噫 咪講少 快D食
余仁生金牌鹿尾巴培元湯 係男仕至~~佳的補品

工

準時番工
準時放工
做個好員工

流行曲

流行曲
-- 大碟其他歌曲 --
三字頭男子組維園阿伯億萬少年彼得潘搞出嘢嘻嘻哈哈老婆仔女狗仔隊玩具大王新浪漫流行曲三字頭男子組流行曲 歌手：林海峰 |
作曲：Eric Kwok/Jerald
填詞：林海峰 | 編曲：Eric Kwok/Jerald

清唱　一開口用喉嚨聲清唱
這樣　才會令你為我拍掌
扮偶像派係我理想

感動　段段歌詞要寫得感動
能夠　講鼓舞及明日理想
一淺白易明人就唱　wo

假音　唱到第二段嚟個假音
震音　震爆個尾音至夠壓場　wo
慘情　我愛你抵死冇好收場
煽情　必兩粒眼淚情緒高漲　wo

去到　chorus chorus要易記易唱　wo
記住要　重複　重複　我為K迷著想
仲要　repeat又repeat　這旋律先算最強
流行曲　要大眾　隨時隨地唱

點唱　手機響用和弦聲即唱
這樣　日與夜我會到處響
日播夜播就最理想　wo

和音　要大量和住咪我走音
懶音　好有風格人人會跟得上　wo

去到　chorus chorus要易記易唱　wo
記住要　重複　重複　我為K迷著想
仲要　repeat又repeat　這旋律先算最強
流行曲　要令到　全場大合唱

再上再上　呢段要越唱越搶
再上再上　呢段會越唱越娘
爭住唱　你記住要出我份糧　冇錢點唱

再上再上　乸實塊面唱做樣
再上再上　一定會斷氣內傷
三連音　三連音　三連音
三連音　三連音　三連音　音

wo chorus chorus要易記易唱　wo
記住要　重複　重複　我為K迷著想
仲要　repeat又repeat　這旋律先算最強
流行曲　唱就唱　咪求其是但唱

我首流行曲　一定中　一定爆
爭住點唱　攞硬獎

Standard Chartered Hong Kong Marathon 2006

RESULTS (2006) - Provisional

Position Cate-gory* 957
Race no. 92410
English Name CHAN PUI KWAN DIANA
Chinese Name 陳佩君
Sex 2898
Cate-gory TFS1
Time
Official 1:17:42
Chip 10km 1:13:51

Yeah I made it

Online Devorce Jokes

Divorce Humor

..Laughter works good like a medicine...

? DIVORCE FOR WEAR
A married couple is driving down the interstate doing 55 mph. The husband is behind the wheel. His wife looks over at him and says, "Honey, I know we've been married for 15 years, but, I want a divorce."
The husband says nothing but slowly increases speed to 60 mph.
She then says, "I don't want you to try to talk me out of it, because I've been having an affair with your best friend, and he's a better lover than you."
Again the husband stays quiet and just speeds up as he clenches his hands on the wheels.
She says, "I want the house." Again the husband speeds up, and now is doing 70 mph.
She says, "I want the kids too." The husband just keeps driving faster, and faster, until he's up to 80 mph. She says, "I want the car, the checking account, and all the credit cards too." The husband slowly starts to veer toward a bridge overpass piling, as she says, "Is there anything you want?"
The husband says, "No, I've got everything I need right here."
She asks, "What's that?" The husband replies just before they hit the wall at 90 mph, "I've got the airbag!" ????


Divorce Barbie
Little girl goes into a toy store. Asks the salesperson, "How much is a Barbie Doll ?"
The salesperson replies, "They are different prices, it depends on which one you want."
"Oh. How much is this Surfer Barbie ?" "$19.95"
"How much is Biker Barbie ?" "$19.95"
"How much is Malibu Barbie ?" "$19.95"
"How much is Divorce Barbie ?" "That one is $69.95"
"Wow. Why are all these other Barbie's only $20, but Divorce Barbie is $70 ?"
"Because Divorce Barbie comes with Ken's house and Ken's car !"


Divorce Proceedings
A judge was interviewing a woman regarding her pending divorce, and asked, "What are the grounds for your divorce?"
She replied, "About four acres and a nice little home in the middle of the property with a stream running by." "No," he said, "I mean what is the foundation of this case?"
"It is made of concrete, brick and mortar," she responded. "I mean," he continued, "What are your relations like?" "I have an aunt and uncle living here in town, and so do my husband's parents."
He said, "Do you have a real grudge?"
"No," she replied, "We have a two-car carport and have never really needed one."
"Please," he tried again, "is there any infidelity in your marriage?"
"Yes, both my son and daughter have stereo sets. We don't necessarily like the music, but the answer to your questions is yes."
"Ma'am, does your husband ever beat you up?"
"Yes," she responded, "about twice a week he gets up earlier than I do."
Finally, in frustration, the judge asked, "Lady, why do you want a divorce?"
"Oh, I don't want a divorce," she replied. "I've never wanted a divorce. My husband does. He said he can't communicate with me."

When my wife and I divorced, we split the house fifty-fifty.
She got the inside and I got the outside.

What you trying to tell me?

After all I am not sure what I am suppose to say.
What do you expect from me?
It was just too many things happened at the same time,
I was unable to process everything and give the best reaction.
You couldn't figure me out,
I felt the same... I have no idea what to say.
I wish there is a script next to me that I can read from it.
All a sudden you were asking so many quesions on top of the present issue,
I was like what... is this my problem and turned to a cause and effect situation.
Can you keep it simple, which is either move on or let go.

Egocentric vs. Selfishness

Egocentric
Pronunciation: "E-gO-'sen-trik also "e-
Function: adjective
1 : concerned with the individual rather than society
2 : taking the ego as the starting point in philosophy
3 a : limited in outlook or concern to one's own activities or needs
Selfishness
Pronunciation: 'sel-fish
Function: adjective
1 : concerned excessively or exclusively with oneself : seeking or concentrating on one's own advantage, pleasure, or well-being without regard for others
2 : arising from concern with one's own welfare or advantage in disregard of others -a selfish act

Although someone told me egocentric and selfishness are just slightly different, I still consider both as disrespectful and heedlessly act.

Keep it down

It was about nine in the morning,
I was still in bed with my sleeping kitty.
I was so damn exhausted and having trouble sleeping in the evening.
My dearest downstairs neighbors were talking to each other loudly through the windows.
I tried to tell myself to go sleep and ignore the noise,
however my neighbors’ discussion went on and on.
I yelled through the windows unconsciously...
“You are so noisy” and closed my window right away.
Unfortunately they just paused for a few seconds and discussion continued for the next 15 minutes.
OMG…. I was forced to get up and leave my bed.
As a conclusion my neighbors are in good relationship,
but I am not............... :(

Old School Buddies

久別的校友,
在校慶45週年重逢,
第一句稱呼就是....
"我認得你, 你就係唔肯比我抄功課嗰個"

好彩我屬友愛分享一群。

My Birthday

B-day Presents:
1. 1/2 dozen of Bananas from Mr. Ken
2. 2 1/2 dozen roses from Mr. S.Y.
3. 1 Orange rose from Mr. Sit
4. 1 Pink flower from Ms Sit
5. I-Dog from Ms Bonita
6. Burberry scarf from Mr. Chu
7. Purple top and Pink scarf from Ms Comina
8. White coat from Ms Anita
9. Necklace from Mom and Grandmom
10. Lucky money $ from Ms Janet and Mr. Robert
11. A ring and pendant from Ms Janet and Mr. Robert
12. Anna Sui Perfume from Mr. C.C. Liu
13. Chocolate from Mr. Justin
14. White Scarf from Ms Melody and Katherine
15. Many ecards and LD b-day calls from my dearest buddies( I miss you )
16. Wonderful Family Dinner
Thanks to You!
I am such a lucky girl (^o^)
Special thanks to Mr. K,
Very thoughtful of you!

Kisser

You're an Passionate Kisser

For you, kissing is about all about following your urges If someone's hot, you'll go in for the kiss - end of story You can keep any relationship hot with your steamy kisses A total spark plug - your kisses are bound to get you in trouble

What Kind of Kisser Are You?

For you Ken

You Should Drive a Bentley Azure

You're all flash, and you love to show off to anyone who will watch. And you're such a high roller, this is just one car of many for you...

What 2007 Car Should You Drive?

Past Life

In a Past Life...

You Were: A Charming Chief. Where You Lived: Peru. How You Died: Suicide.

Who Were You In a Past Life?

Underwear

What Your Underwear Says About You

You like to think of yourself as innocent, even though you're not! You're comfortable in your own skin - and don't care to impress anyone.

The Underwear Oracle

Standing still

Cuttin' through the darkest night in my two headlights
Trying to keep it clear, but I'm losing it here to the twilight
There's a dead end to my left, there's a burning bush to my right
You aren't in sight, you aren't in sight

Do you want me, like I want you?
Or am I standing still, beneath the darkened sky?
Or am I standing still, with the scenery flying by?
Or am I standing still, out of the corner of my eye?
Was that you passing me by?

Mothers on the stoop, boys in souped-up coupes on this hot summer night
Between fight and flight is the blind man's sight and the choice that's right
I roll the window down, feel like I'm gonna drown in this strange town
Feel broken down, I feel broken down

Do you need me, like I need you?
Or am I standing still, beneath the darkened sky?
Or am I standing still, with the scenery flying by?
Or am I standing still, out of the corner of my eye?
Was that you passing me by?

Sweet sorrow is the call tomorrow
Sweet sorrow is the call tomorrow

Do you love me, like I love you?
Or am I standing still, beneath the darkened sky?
Or am I standing still, with the scenery flying by?
Or am I standing still, out of the corner of my eye?
Was that you passing me by?
Are you passing me by? (Passing me by)
Do you want me? (Passing me by)
Do you need me, like I need you too?
And do you want me, like I want you?
Are you passing me by?

Would you like to stand still with me?
Do I really need someone to stand still with me?

Feeling vs Timing

Are we schedule to meet someone or doing something accordingly?
If everything is already planned,
why there are so many accidents.
Feeling just comes without a signal,
and leaves without a warning.
Totally unpredictable and always surprising,
I don't want to catch up with anything.
I have my own time-frame and I know my work limit,
so no-more over loading and put myself in a difficult situation.
Everything has its own way,
when it is gone and it's gone... far gone.

嘩好勵害! 蘇師父好勁! 連鬼佬都唔放過!

好煩好難服待

My Presentation

Lately I been giving out presentations from 1st graders to 4th graders.
The presentations were based on Food Guide Pyramid and Healthy Snacks,
it was a great experience to do public speaking in front of children.
They are all smart and so innocent,
they speak from their minds.
So much easier to communicate.

Messy

Whaz a mess in my mind?
Too many problems......
So many issues......

Holding hands

It is such a good feeling holding someone's hand,
and feeling the temperature and touch.
Such feeling couldn't explain in words.
It is just a solid support and having someone next to you.
Nobody wants to let go and leave... so do I

In and Out

I have been going in and out from hospital.
My grandmother is not in good shape,
she is staying in the hospital at this moment.
There are so many issues blow out.
What if this happens to her again?
Can we still taking care of her?
Should we send to elderly home?
What is the best for her?
I have no idea and I can’t read her mind.
It is hard to let go or let someone down,
I have no confident making the best decision for her.
She took care of me when I was young,
she never send me to nursery home or daycare.
The only thing I can do for her is to say a little prayer for her.
Hope she can recover before the flu season.
For some reasons I have a feeling this flu season is going to be harsh.

Who said Women have to wear heels?

There are so many different shoes .... tennis shoes, running shoes, yoga shoes, flip-top, sandals.
Who is stupid ass that designed high heels for women?
There is no high heel for men then why women?
There is another ridicules rule is dress code in office?
Who said wearing high heels could induce the productivity?
BS blah blah blah
I just couldn't think of anything, when I was suffering the pain from toes to heels.
I couldn't wait to take it off!
Trust me it is terrible to wear a pair of high heels and going up and down through the day.
I don't mind to spend more money on shoes, but it is very hard to find a pair of comfortable and presentable working shoes.

My Brain

Your Brain's Pattern

You're a simple thinker, and this is actually a very good thing. You don't complicate matters when you don't have to. You look for the simplest explanation or solution, and you go with that. As a result, your mind is uncluttered and free of stress.

What Pattern Is Your Brain?

First Time Interview

I was interviewed by local women magazine "Amy mag",
regarding of some nutrition issue.
It was a fun experience being interviewed and seening it was published.
I don't consider myself as an expert,
but I am just sharing my little knowledge with others.

My Little Sweet in Life

Dear Sweetie,
Happy Birthday and Sweet 5!
Loving you always.
From your aunt

It is all about life

I have done reading "Tuesday with Morrie",
I did learn a lot from that book;
it is one of books I will definitely read it again.
Sometimes we get too involve in something,
or we caring too much and focusing too long,
what we thought is right turn out may not be great.
The first medical chart I had read in HK was my grandmother's chart.
While I was reading all the lab result carefully,
I was also stunk by all the figures.
It was not my first reading a patient's chart,
it is just something I don't believe which is going to happen to my family.
What I was seeing was totally contradict to what I used to believe.

Home Sweet Home

I am eventually home.... back to where I came from... Home Town... Birthplace
Hong Kong is a city never sleep and constantly changing.
I am getting a bit exhausted of city life... too busy for me.
Everyday I have to remember to bring tissue paper with me.
Bus 2A becomes a best friend of mine because it takes me home everyday.

麥當奴 巨無霸

雙層牛肉巨無霸 醬汁洋蔥夾青瓜 芝士生菜加芝麻 人人食過笑哈哈

BIZARRE LOVE TRIANGLE LYRICS by Frente

Every time I think of you
I get a shot right through into a bolt of blue
It’s no problem of mine but it’s a problem I find
Living a life that I can’t leave behind
There’s no sense in telling me
The wisdom of a fool won’t set you free
But that’s the way that it goes
And it’s what nobody knows
And every day my confusion grows
Every time I see you falling
I get down on my knees and pray
I’m waiting for that final moment
You’ll say the words that I can’t say
I feel fine and I feel good
I feel like I never should
Whenever I get this way,
I just don’t know what to say
Why can’t we be ourselves like we were yesterday
I’m not sure what this could mean
I don’t think you’re what you seem
I do admit to myself
That if I hurt someone else
Then we’d never see just what we’re meant to be
Every time I see you falling
I get down on my knees and pray
I’m waiting for that final moment
You’ll say the words that I can’t say

Lonely

Artist:Akon
Song:Lonely

Lonely im so lonely,I have nobody,To call my owwnnnIm so lonely, im mr. LonelyI have nobody, To call my owwnnnIm so lonely, Yo this one here goes out to all my playas out there ya kno got to have one good girl whose always been there like yaKno took all the bullshit then one day she cant take it no more and decides to leaveI wont up in the middle of the night and I noticed my girl wasn't by my side, coulda sworn I was dreamin, for her I wasFeenin, so I hadda take a little ride, back tracking ova these few years, tryna figure out wat I do to make it go bad, cuzEver since my girl left me, my whole left life came crashinIm so lonely so lonely,Im mr. Lonely mr. LonelyI have nobody I have nobodyTo call my own to call my own girlIm so lonely so lonelyIm mr. Lonely mr. LonelyI have nobody I have nobodyTo call my own to call my own girlCant belive I hadda girl like you and I just let you walk right outta my life, after all I put u thru u still stuckAround and stayed by my side, what really hurt me is I broke ur heart, baby you were a good girl and I had no right, IReally wanna make things right, cuz without u in my life girlIm so lonely so lonelyIm mr. Lonely mr. LonelyI have nobody I have nobody to call my ownTo call my own to call my own girlIm so lonely so lonelyIm mr. Lonely mr. LonelyI have nobody I have nobodyTo call my own to call my own girlBeen all about the world ain't neva met a girl that can take the things that you been throughNever thought the day would come where you would get up and run and I would be out chasing uCuz aint nowhere in the globe id rather be, aint noone in the globe id rather see then the girl of my dreams that made meBe so happy but now so lonelySo lonely so lonelyIm mr. Lonely mr. LonelyI have nobody I have nobodyTo call my own to call my own Im so lonely so lonelyIm mr. Lonely mr. LonelyI have nobody I have nobodyTo call my own to call my own girrllNever thought that id be alone, I didnt hope you'd be gone this long, I jus want u to come home, so stop playing girl andCome on home come on home, baby girl I didn't mean to shout, I want me and you to work it out, I never wished Id everHurt my baby, and its drivin me crazy cuz...Im so lonely so lonelyIm mr. Lonely mr. LonelyI have nobody I have nobodyTo call my own to call my own Im so lonely so lonelyIm mr. Lonely mr. LonelyI have nobody I have nobodyTo call my own to call my own girllLonely, so lonelySo lonely, so lonely,Mr. Lonely, so lonelySo lonely, so lonely, so lonely, Mr. Lonely

Krispy Kreme Doughnuts

I couldn’t believe that I finished half a dozen of donuts in 24 hours.
Basically I had donuts for breakfast, lunch and dinner.
Women do need some sweet in their lives.
However I don’t want to be the first lady overdose with donuts and sugar.
I assumed my glycemic index had been dramatically went up and reached its peak.
Wow~ Crazy donut day!
I won’t have donut for next 24 hours.
Original, Chocolate and Sugar Krispy Kreme Doughnuts still taste good to me.

Almost run-out of toothpaste

More and more decision making

That's how I feel at this moment. Where am I going?
Can someone let me borrow the map and compass?
Who said women can't read map?
Once I figure out my direction and I can be faster than anyone else. haha just skidding!

My Favorite Movie

Howl's Moving Castle
I want to move there too.....

My List to Doooooo

1. Finish my last class
2. Post an ad. for my beloved car (Thank you for serving me all these times)
3. Call my family
4. Make reservation and purchase flight ticket
5. Send out more and more resumessss
6. Get rid of my stuffsssssss
7. Setup my moving plan :)

Soul

You Are a Dreaming Soul

Your vivid emotions and imagination takes you awy from this world So much so that you tend to live in your head most of the time You have great dreams and ambitions that could be the envy of all... But for you, following through with your dreams is a bit difficult You are charming, endearing, and people tend to love you. Forgiving and tolerant, you see the world through rose colored glasses. Underneath it all, you have a ton of passion that you hide from others. Always hopeful, you tend to expect positive outcomes in your life. Souls you are most compatible with: Newborn Soul, Prophet Soul, and Traveler Soul

What Kind of Soul Are You?

Dog

You Are a Golden Retriever Puppy

Tolerant, fun-loving, and patient. You are eager to please - and attached to your frisbee.

What Breed of Puppy Are You?

Water

Your Element Is Water

A bit of a contradiction, you can seem both lighthearted and serious. That's because you're good at going with the flow - but you also are deep. Highly intuitive, you tune in to people's emotions and moods easily. You are able to tap into deep emotional connections and connect with others. You prefer a smooth, harmonious life - but you can navigate your way around waves. You have a knack for getting people to get along and making life a little more peaceful.

What's Your Element?

Happy Father's Day

I am not quite attach with my dad,
but anyway Happy Father's Day.
There may be some misunderstanding between us.
I believed that we did learn from each other,
different learning styles and communication skills.
Very soon I am going to see you everyday,
I hope the relationship will be improve through timesss.
Looking forward to meet with you and have a deep conversation with you.
I really hope both of us can take off our masks,
and let me know what was in your mind all these times.
There is always a reason behind every decision,
I would like take this opportunity to get to know you before it is getting too late.

Step by step

Problem comes one after and other,
I realized problem solving is so important.
There are so many things that I really love to do,
however there is an opportunity cost for everything.
The key to succeed is to handle one at a time,
aim at the target and hit on it before the next target comes.
I can't afford to act like a lost puppy all the time.
I guess I have to make a list and set priority of each task.
Wish me luck ....

溫柔

我們總是注意看到的溫柔，喜歡柔柔好聽的聲音，抗拒不了察覺得到的體貼。
有時卻沒發覺，被忽略的溫柔。
溫柔，有時沒說出口，也難以發現。
有的溫柔像空氣一樣，圍繞在我們四周，看不到也摸不著，但它還是溫柔。
溫柔，有時沒說出口，也難以發現。
我們都無法抗拒溫柔，是不是在四周有被我們遺漏的溫柔？
溫柔不是一直都在的，就像咖啡的香味也不是一輩子都不散的。

幸運

「手把青秧插滿田，低頭便見水中天；
心地清淨方為道，退步原來是向前。」
世上本來就不公平，我們際遇不好，卻有人比我們更糟；
我們怨上天不公平，那麼換成我們是老天爺呢？
我們能做得更好嗎？
凡事要多方面想想，其實自己是很幸運的了。
其實 快樂如果也可以”分期付款”
那我就可以一天快樂一點兒 每天都有一點兒

Angel's Snow

Once upon a time there was a legend about Angel's snow.
People believed that the first snow fell in winter was Angel's snow.
However Angel's snow brought sadness and regret,
for those who caught it in their hands.
Angel's snow was the Angel's tears,
supposed to let it falls.
Let the sadness falls and evaporates......

SEE~

What you see what you get....
But I see nothing... hm... am I going to get nothing?

Rainny Day

I was reviewing what you told me,
every sentence, every word from you.
Thank you for your honesty and sincere,
I am glad to know you.
It is fate which brings us together;
I do cherish you and always wishing you well.
Thank you :)

掛在口邊

口是心非﹗
請不要說下去﹗
什麼好朋友﹖
簡直引我發笑﹐
實在太不像話。
為何還要掩飾?
受不了嗎﹖
還是來一腳十二碼才可完場嗎﹖